is there any hope?

[nightowl]

A close friend started to get uncomfortable with the intimacy developing between she and I. We admitted that we both felt attracted to one another. She asked for space to process her feelings, so I stopped calling her to respect her wishes. She said she needed to think about things, and about whether or not she was ready for this.

 

We ran into each other about a week later, and she wanted to get together, which we did, and everything was okay. We had fun. We also talked about what was going on. She said that she still needed more space, and that she couldn't handle spending too much time together. She said she had to work through her emotions and that she had a lot of other stuff going on right now (too private for me to share online)

 

We came to an agreement that since she was feeling uncomfortable, that she should be the one to call me when she is ready to get together again. I don't want to 'push' her, or for her to feel 'pressured' or uncomfortable. It was both of our idea to agree to this. She then suggested getting together this week to go out again. She said she would call. I waited all week for her call, and she hasn't called. I am feeling worried.

 

I miss her. I can't call her because I said I wouldn't...but now I'm regretting saying that. I feel like I am losing her, and I'm feeling sad and confused.

 

What should I do? Is there any hope that she'll call? Does it seem like she is no longer interested? Is she just stringing me along?

 

I want my friend back!

[wahaha1]

OMG...., just call her if you want to..., and asked all the questions being posted here to her... You need to find out the answer. Give yourself a timeline, you cannot wait indefinitely for her.