mzlady05 Posted November 23, 2005 Share Posted November 23, 2005 Ok, this is the deal. Me and this guy had been talking for months. Earlier this year, we met here in college. We spent time together everyday. I had feelings for him, and he had feelings for me also. He finally worked up the nerve to ask me to be with him, but i had a problem that i had to get rid of(my ex). Me and my ex weren't communicating or anything. It was like we weren't even together. I didn't tell him no, but i told him that i needed some time to get this problem solved. I wanted to tell him yes, but i had to do the right thing.He said that it was fine and for me to take all the time that i needed because he would be there for me. 3 wks. later, i finally worked up the nerve to tell him that im ready to be with him and BAM!! He said, "When i was ready to be with you, u weren't ready to be with me so, now u have to wait." I was so hurt by this. He felt that he had been rejected for some reason, but i was only tryin to get rid of my ex to be with HIM! He had met this other girl so, he said that he had feelings for me and her. Before he met me, he was tryin to talk to this girl, but never got a chance to. Now, it's different. A month later, we started arguing and fussing about this situation. While this was happening, it pulled him and the other girl closer together. Oh, did I mention that the other girl was one of my friends? I confronted her about the situation and she told me that she know how much i care about him and that she wouldn't do a friend like that. I saw the guy and he told me that he wanted to talk to me, so we talked. He said that he feel that we should "just be friends" because that's all he see me as now. It was only because he met her. Anyway, I would see them together all the time, and they would always be around each other in one of our college buildings, so I went up to her again. She said that she told him that she didn't like him like that, and that she think me and him need to work our relationship out. By this time, i was figuring out that she was lying to me about everything. She started getting feelings for him and right before my eyes, they hooked up. I was so hurt. I thought that she was my friend. He goes with her now, but he tells me that he loves me. I don't understand any of it! I'm like, "If you love me, why are you with her?" He replied, "My pride won't let me go back and change things between us." He says that he thinks about me each and every day, but i just don't get it. He says that we couldve been together, but i waited too long. He likes me alot, but the problem is that he likes her, also. He tells me that i'll never kno what may happen in the future for us. I like him alot and i wish things didn't have to be like this. The advantage that she has over me is that she now has a car and i don't, and it's like i don't have a chance with him anymore. He gets jealous when i talk to other guys, but he has a girlfriend. SO my questions are: 1) Should i leave him alone and let him be with this girl? 2) Do you think that he really loves me? 3) Was i wrong for making him wait 3 wks? Do you think that he needs space to see where he wants to be? 4) Do u think that we'll ever get back together again? I NEED ADVICE TO GET THE GUY THAT I LOVE BACK! PLEASE HELP. It was meant for us to be together. WHAT SHOULD I DO:lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
whereismylifegoing Posted November 23, 2005 Share Posted November 23, 2005 how do you know you are meant to be together? just a question......... Link to post Share on other sites
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