xLOPES Posted November 23, 2005 Share Posted November 23, 2005 when im with my new girlfriend.. we end up talking about the dumbest stuff.. making me feel stupide for talking about it. Everday its the same thing, "hows practice, whats up, and occasionally we talk normally, but it still feels awkward. ive always had trouble talking to girls, i just simply have nothing to say, and our conversations end up with the AWKWARD silence. i dont want to break up with her, mainly because i really like her, and we just started dating. If anyone could just simply give me some valuable tips, it would be greatly appreciated. Link to post Share on other sites
BrainRightHeartWrong Posted November 23, 2005 Share Posted November 23, 2005 come over to Ireland and i'll teach you "the gift of the gab"... i never shutup talking to my ex, maybe silence is better! if you have nothing to say you're maybe talking to the wrong girls, you need to find people like you and just let it flow i know from life experience straight away if I am not compatible with people, that comes with age, now i could talk to almost anyone but especially people I know I can click with! most important... BE YOURSELF! never plan a conversation Link to post Share on other sites
Author xLOPES Posted November 23, 2005 Author Share Posted November 23, 2005 but still.. how could i learn to talk to her.. being comfortable with every thing i say. i feel so desperate for conversations sometimes.. i do actually think about what im going to say. i just need to learn.. girls i can talk to with ease tend to be the ones im not attracted to, but the ones i im attracted to, i have trouble talking to ......HELP Link to post Share on other sites
BrainRightHeartWrong Posted November 23, 2005 Share Posted November 23, 2005 i just need to learn.. girls i can talk to with ease tend to be the ones im not attracted to, but the ones i im attracted to, i have trouble talking to this can't be true and if you think it is reverse it because it'll never work out when you're an old guy like me you can tell within 30 seconds whether you like somebody, obviously they have to be attractive to you but if the conversation doesn't flow it won't work out... i think the answer is just what i wrote for you! to first have a girlfriend they must firstly have to be able to be a friend i.e you'd hang about with them because they are like you and are good to be with i talked to 1000's of girls, some of them are stunners but are unattractive because of the personality difference! hope this helps! Link to post Share on other sites
Neptune Posted November 23, 2005 Share Posted November 23, 2005 You are nervous around the ones you are attracted to and that freezes up your conversation. Link to post Share on other sites
BrainRightHeartWrong Posted November 23, 2005 Share Posted November 23, 2005 try drinking 15 pints of Guinness then! no i know you're too young! have to say if i met my ex sober i wouldn't have been nervous you're always more nervous when you're young or totally frightened, this is normal Link to post Share on other sites
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