andyboy Posted November 23, 2005 Share Posted November 23, 2005 I have a girlfriend right now but we are beginning to not see eye to eye as we used to and I think the relationship isn’t going to work out as we thought At the place I have been working for the past year and a half I have worked with this girl. From the first time I met her I felt this strong attraction to her (the omg this is the one) badly now over time we became friends now the bad thing about this is that I have been told by numerous people that I have that guy friend/big brother personality when it comes to certain girls that I meet I have tried once before to ask her out but I was told that I was to much of a big brother to her for her to go out with me now I know in most situations guys would usually see the red flag and just give up at that point but I just cant get her off my mind I love this girl so much, I would do anything to call her my girl. Now for the twist to my story this girl that I want to date so badly has a boyfriend that is very physically protective about her however he treats her like crap both mentally and physically with her sometimes coming in to work crying telling me how bad he treats her and how he just cheated on her and is doing drugs and how she was going to leave him but never did because that’s about the time I tried to go out with her now this was like 7months ago now with in the past 2 months she got pregnant and I thought all was lost and basically just gave up within the last month her boyfriend started to drugs again badly and skipping around on girls again putting excessive stress in her life ultimately causing her to lose the baby I guess that finally put a little sense in her because now this week she has begun talking again about leaving him again although this time I think its a little bit more realistic or at least I hope. I guess what im looking for are suggestions or guidance on how to go about overcoming this situation Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted November 25, 2005 Share Posted November 25, 2005 She is being both emotionally and physically abused by her boyfriend and unless someone like YOU who can step in and get her out of this mess ( or someone else who is strong and will help get her out ) she is going to stay on the merry go round of misery because she does not think she deserves better. Help her. Then tell her how you feel and that you can treat her better. She needs a way out. She needs to stay out. Stop contact with him. Its going to take a strong will for her to keep away from him. Thats where you come in. Link to post Share on other sites
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