tinktronik Posted November 27, 2005 Share Posted November 27, 2005 RP, wow , that BLOWS!!! So sorry. I would be a wreck! You'll get through this and be that much stronger for it.And at least (as you said before) it ended before you uprooted and moved .But thats looking on the bright side . I for one would be mad as hell!!!! I know I always feel better if I break a few dishes , just drop em' into the trash and wait for them to break (so silly) . Perhaps a vacation is just the thing. Or sourrounding yourself with loved ones. You are in fact strong , and in time will find someone worthy of you. Best of luck. Tink Link to post Share on other sites
luvtoto Posted November 27, 2005 Share Posted November 27, 2005 Oh man...my A^^ is sore sitting her for an hour reading this entire thread. Wow! First of all, RP I am sorry for your situation. I commend you on sticking to your guns through all of this. I have my own opinion about things, but I am too intimidated to voice it right now. Can't imagine how you are feeling right now. I don't see how this is helping anything. Link to post Share on other sites
Milo Posted November 27, 2005 Share Posted November 27, 2005 Late in reading this. ****. Sorry to hear, rp. Unbelievable. And you're right, that wimpiness is a seriously unappealing fault. Link to post Share on other sites
monkeybars Posted November 27, 2005 Share Posted November 27, 2005 I don't agree--RP has been pressuring him for a marriage proprosal since, what, their FOURTH in person contact? You know, I recently had an engagement ended, right before the wedding, and we lived together for about a year prior! You just really don't know someone over a webcam. You truly really know someone once you spend considerable time with them. I read RP's previous posting regaring this guy, and from what I gathered, the guy was hesitant immediately! She pretty much spelled out--look, we have great sex, I "think" I love you, you and I need to be married. In RP's previous thread--I have to agree with EVEVRYTHING that Shygirl was questioning. This dog can't hunt! It's not gonna happen. Move on, and if RP has some other guy in the states waiting in her, I say--go for it! I applaud AS for having the sense to know that he shouldn't rush into something with someone he is not 100% sure about, good for him for standing up! And RP-no offense, I do not know you at all, but, alot of your previous and current threads are very-me, me, me--I just get a very self involved feeling from your postings. Marriage is a serious thing. I guess the issue I am having is, whats the rush? Link to post Share on other sites
lindya Posted November 27, 2005 Share Posted November 27, 2005 IAnd RP-no offense, I do not know you at all, but, alot of your previous and current threads are very-me, me, me--I just get a very self involved feeling from your postings. A very self-involved person would surely be absolutely revelling in responding to all of these posts about her situation. As it is, RP's not responding at all. I hope you're okay, girl. Link to post Share on other sites
monkeybars Posted November 27, 2005 Share Posted November 27, 2005 Sorry-not stalking you, just pointing out what I've seen based on the last thread you started about your situation. I think that throwing out an accusation of stalking from someone who may not agree with your point of view is pretty immature, and very self centered. I've recently ended an engagement and have been going through some trauma myself. But, unlike your international love affair, I actually was in the same city, same house and same bed as my ex-fiance. I honestly believe that if you truly completely loved this man the way you claim you do, a bit of patience woould have been in order. Instead, you over react the minute something doesn't go exactly the way you decided it should be. Hey, we've all been there, I can relate. But, you and he moved waaaaayyyy too fast --and now are reaping what you earlier sowed. If this man is so important to you, for crying out loud, answer the phone, and work it out. Unless the drama is what you are really after? Link to post Share on other sites
Author RecordProducer Posted November 27, 2005 Author Share Posted November 27, 2005 Hi, guys! I would like to thank all the people who stood up for me here. That really touched me. The thing that amazed me was not only that you defended someone you (hopefully) appreciate as a fellow member and friend (to some of you), but that you fought for what you thought was right and just. I guess for now this thread can rest. While for others this may be a fun thread, for me it's my life. Link to post Share on other sites
933KJL Posted November 28, 2005 Share Posted November 28, 2005 appreciate as a fellow member and friend (to some of you), but that you fought for what you thought was right and just. For some reason the Theme To Superman is coursing through my mind! Fighting for truth and justice and the American Way! Link to post Share on other sites
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