help!

[andyboy]

I have a girlfriend right now but we are beginning to not see eye to eye as we used to and I think the relationship isn’t going to work out as we thought

 

At the place I have been working for the past year and a half I have worked with this girl. From the first time I met her I felt this strong attraction to her (the omg this is the one) badly now over time we became friends now the bad thing about this is that I have been told by numerous people that I have that guy friend/big brother personality when it comes to certain girls that I meet I have tried once before to ask her out but I was told that I was to much of a big brother to her for her to go out with me now I know in most situations guys would usually see the red flag and just give up at that point but I just cant get her off my mind I love this girl so much, I would do anything to call her my girl.

[westernxer]

Sorry, pal. She doesn't date big brothers.

[penkitten]

dont try to date coworkers

its too hard when you break up

[lindya]

I have tried once before to ask her out but I was told that I was to much of a big brother to her for her to go out with me now I know in most situations guys would usually see the red flag and just give up at that point but I just cant get her off my mind I love this girl so much, I would do anything to call her my girl.

 

It's not a red flag, it's a clear stop sign.

 

If you've started shopping around for a new girlfriend to the extent that you're asking colleagues out, then surely it's about time to put the relationship you're currently in out of its misery?