Hobbish Posted November 24, 2005 Share Posted November 24, 2005 A long, long while ago, my ex of a year broke up with me. I had it coming due to possessive clingyness. I understand that now. We went to the same uni and were in practically all the same classes. We had the same social group and this made my plan of NC very hard. I did it for a month, before resorting to pathetic, whiny measures. I asked her to come back to me, cried to her, spend months in depression (also due to many personal issues). Eventually, after a couple more months, we had started to build up a friendship again. Then i screwed up. I proposed to her on valentines day of 99. She obviously turned me down, cut off contact and eventually moved away. Two years later i started another realtionship (non serious flings inbetween) with a girl called danielle. She was (and is) an amazing girl. We had an amazing four years together. She dumped me a month ago. I was totally smashed again. I wasnt sure why it happened. She said the spark was gone. I tried NC again for a week, before realising it was precisely that that made me depressed. I wrote her a long letter, explaining things. I couldnt stand what i was feeling, and i couldnt help myself. But she sent a long letter back explaining things back to me. She said she didnt want this to be "it" she didnt want to end it here. I left things for a few days, before getting an email from her asking if i got the letter. Thats when i knew she wanted our relationship back. I sent a fairly vauge email back. I said i did and i was happy with what she'd said. The next she got from me was two weeks later (two days ago). It was her birthday. I sent her a White gold necklace with a white gold crucifix with diamonds. I also sent a bouquet of red roses, along with a note saying " Love NEVER gives up, NEVER loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. " I am no christian, but i love those words. I know they have been on this board before. I just today got an email back that says. "I love you" so, my questions are these. Is what i did right and what should i say back? Link to post Share on other sites
mini696 Posted November 25, 2005 Share Posted November 25, 2005 Well its sounding good. Link to post Share on other sites
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