luvncurls Posted November 27, 2005 Share Posted November 27, 2005 I thought I would post for some advice. I find that I am more and more attracted to a very good friend of mine of the past 3 years. We have been initmate in the past, but that was that and our frienship continued just as before. Both of us have had significant others during the course of our relationship, but those have ended up as a bust. I find myself thinking about him more and more lately. He is relationship phobic, but has alot of female friends. He always complains about how he wishes he were like other guys and wouldn't feel so guilty about having physical relationships with girls and then leaving it at that. He is always interested in some girl or another, but always seems to be scard to ask them out. I'm in the same boat in that I fear rejection more than anything else. We were at a Halowwen party a few weeks ago and as we left together someone shouted that they hoped we would enjoy continuing our party. He mumbled, and he was very drunk, that he was never going to go there again.It hurt my ego more than anything. Last week we hung out alone, and he flirted viciously, as he always does, and told me I had a nice butt. To complicate things even more I work with him and see him on a regular basis, so it's hard to just try to ignore him. I am fairly certain that he is physically attracted to me and that he cares about me immensely as a friend, but I'm not sure about the rest. Any advice woule be appreciated. thanks. :confused: Link to post Share on other sites
mini696 Posted November 28, 2005 Share Posted November 28, 2005 Talk to him, and discuss your feelings. If he doesn't share them, ask him to back off the flirting. Link to post Share on other sites
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