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Should I hit on girls who already have boyfriends?


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I am loyal to the bone...

hahaaha:laugh: ....i'm sorry....i just....couldn't help....very sorry....didnt mean to make light of your post or anything but i'm sure you could have found a better way to phrase that :p :p :p :p

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I am glad you find that humorous

 

i should rephrase that.

 

I am loyal to the core

 

Thats not much better is it?:p

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Right now there is a guy trying to hit on my girl and I find it really rude. where is the respect?. Picture yourself as the one who has the girl the other guy is trying to hit on. How would you feel???. If you ask me I feel like breaking every single bone in the body of that ba*tard but I wont do it because I respect my girl.

 

- If she cheats on her man just to be with you, what would stop her from cheatting on you?

 

- Don't take it personal maybe I'm just biased because I'm in the same situation but... Not man enough to get yourself a girl? why stealing someone else's girlfriend?

 

- Maybe the first way of picturing it is: How would you feel if someone tries to violate the purity of your parents marriage? Would it be ok with you if someone breaks the marriage apart?]

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Good point

 

If she is the kind of girl who will cheat on her BF with you

 

why wouldn't she cheat on you with the next guy?

 

 

If she's the kind of girl always looking for the next best thing

 

 

she'll get bored with you too

 

 

You're no better than a pair of trendy shoes that went out of style...

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Sure go in and destroy their relationship. You should sleep good at night knowing you caused him pain and that your * catch * just dumped her bf to play with you.

 

You get what you deserve. Remember that when you are joyfully frolicking with some girl who would throw away her bf and pick another without considering her bf's feelings.

 

You both belong together if she agrees to this. You are both chigger bugs off the same rose bush.

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I am glad you find that humorous

 

i should rephrase that.

 

I am loyal to the core

 

Thats not much better is it?:p

 

haha, better, but it just doesnt sound as funny:laugh:

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Here's my problem...

 

I've got a new coworker that has a boyfriend, but we flirt constantly (suggestive talk, neck rubs, arm/hand touching, etc.). I've asked her about her boyfriend and it felt like she wanted to change the subject to something else. She is the one who normally starts the flirting, and gets excited to spend time with me, but I am certainly willing to flirt back. She even seems jealous I flirt with other coworkers.

 

I genuinely think she is intereted in me... But now what? I don't want to seem like a schmuck by horning on a girl with a boyfriend, but if I don't do something soon, I'll probably blow my chances with her...

 

Suggestions?

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Admiral Thrawn

Having never had a girlfriend before, I can not appreciate how a guy who has a girlfriend must feel, when other guys are hitting on their girls.

 

I may be the opposite extreme. If I see a girl with a guy, I automatically assume he is her boyfriend, without ascertaining if he is just a friend, brother, or acquaintence. I'm shy talking to girls, and literally look for any possible excuse to back off, which is not really healthy.

 

Sometimes I have such a low self-esteem about my chances of dating anyone, that I feel, even if I do hit on anyone with a boyfriend, it will be the same result to someone who doesn't have one: nothing, but I figure it is good for a practise shot anyway. You know that if she does say 'no', she's already taken, so it doesn't feel as bad, because you can say, well, she has a boyfriend anyway.

 

Some girls want a little extra spice in their lives or want some part-time lover to fix them while their boyfriend is not available. So, I think if the goal is simply a short-term discreet casual relationship, it is just left to the moral judgement of the player.

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Here's my problem...

 

I've got a new coworker that has a boyfriend, but we flirt constantly (suggestive talk, neck rubs, arm/hand touching, etc.). I've asked her about her boyfriend and it felt like she wanted to change the subject to something else. She is the one who normally starts the flirting, and gets excited to spend time with me, but I am certainly willing to flirt back. She even seems jealous I flirt with other coworkers.

 

I genuinely think she is intereted in me... But now what? I don't want to seem like a schmuck by horning on a girl with a boyfriend, but if I don't do something soon, I'll probably blow my chances with her...

 

Suggestions?

 

She really does not have a boyfriend if she is flirting with you like that.

 

If she brings it up, tell her that you feel sorry for him because you cant stand being her. That will straighten her up.

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If I see a girl with a guy, I automatically assume he is her boyfriend, without ascertaining if he is just a friend, brother, or acquaintence.

 

I am the same way. One reason why I quit approaching women years ago.

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Ha, yes, right on. Or alternatively make sure her current b/f is a little guy who is unlikely to break your head!!!
Agreed.

Big dumb gorillas are hazardous to one's health.

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Yes I have this problem. I think the last 5 girls I have asked out already had boyfriends. And the ones who were single wouldn't even give me a chance. God damn them all.

 

And no, girls do not initiate anything. Ever. At least not in my case.

Same here.
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Exactly. I don't even feel like trying anymore. Am I supposed to? Am I supposed to go to every woman I find attractive and try to seduce her? That seems like an abhorrent waste of time. And it isn't fun.
It is a lot of work.
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