nenerweiner Posted November 28, 2005 Share Posted November 28, 2005 I have this boyfriend of 7 months but known him for 2 years and he just had a baby with this girl before me and now he stays with her during the weekends and he expects me to be okay with it do you think he will sleep with her again and should i leave him and he has no job and me and her buy him whatever he wants i think im the loser Link to post Share on other sites
Ash Posted November 28, 2005 Share Posted November 28, 2005 Trust, is the most importent thing in a relationship. With out Trust you dont have anything. Link to post Share on other sites
WhiteDragon Posted November 28, 2005 Share Posted November 28, 2005 This would be a very hard situation but here is a few key things: Hes staying over the weekend with her??!!! You don't have to accept that. He can get the baby every other weekend without her around. He doesn't have a job??!! Ok, a major RED FLAG!! Hes a father but has no job?? What can he possibly accomplish in life? Link to post Share on other sites
Ash Posted November 28, 2005 Share Posted November 28, 2005 i would have to go with whitedragon on this. But if the baby is to young to leave his mother he can have her come to your place to see the baby. Link to post Share on other sites
Enygmatic Posted November 28, 2005 Share Posted November 28, 2005 Well first i would need to ask why he is not getting a job. If it is because he doesn't feel like it then definitely this guy is not worth it since he has a child and doesn't care about supporting him/her. If he doesnt care about his child then why would he care about you and not cheat on you?. On the other hand if it is because he can't find a job then you just need to give him some time. Hes got a child and it is reasonable that he wants to spend sometime with him/her which you need to understand. If this is the case then the only thing you need is trust but if you want to feel more confident let him know how you feel, you can't stop him from visiting his child but at least you will know that he already knows how you feel. Link to post Share on other sites
mini696 Posted November 29, 2005 Share Posted November 29, 2005 I agree with Whitedragon... Major Red Flag... Surely he doesn't have to stay on the weekends. Link to post Share on other sites
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