Is she gonna cheat on me?

[LouisX]

Well I have a problem, my girlfriend is a really sociable person and she likes to be funny and hang out with her friends. There is this guy that likes my girlfriend and he told her a couple of weeks ago plus one of his friends(also my girls friend) was trying to help him pick her up. I know that my girl loves me and everything i know is because she told me about it. Now the problem is that my girl became a friend of this intruder and Im not really confident about it. Perhaps Im becoming paranoid but i dont like her being this guys friend, especially knowing that he has a huge crush on her!!. If i were her i would hang out with the guy, because I would know that it could be a threat to my relationship so what can i do??? Im afraid she will fall for him and everything will be screwed between us, what can I do??

[shyguy1126]

im goin through the same thing its killing me, im thinking about hanging out with a girl that likes me and she what happens see if she feels how i feel let me know what u come up with

[Spectre]

It's one thing to suspect that one of your gf's friends has a crush on her. But for him to come out and tell her, and she STILL hangs out with him? Somethings up, shes deliberately putting herself in a position that can hurt the relationship, what will be her excuse if and when this guy tries to put the moves on her? I wouldnt be upset if some guy put the moves on my gf, but I'd be extremely PO'ed if a guy who my gf KNEW liked her put the moves on her..its almost as if shes letting it happen or setting it up to happen

 

Tell her that youre uncomfortable with her hanging a guy who has feelings for her, and even tho u trust her, you dont trust her friend, and simply ask her to stop hanging out with him, if she has a problem with it then obviously theres more to the story