melissa85 Posted November 28, 2005 Share Posted November 28, 2005 Hey guys, Hope you are all doing well. You know I have this knack of liking the wrong guys, since high school. Either they are not into me or if they are they turn out to be total jerks. How do I prevent this from repeating itself over and over again?? Any ideas??? Link to post Share on other sites
witabix Posted November 29, 2005 Share Posted November 29, 2005 Well melissa the options are endless. Become a Nun, take up residence in a cave, etc etc. Its a bit like asking how do you win the lottery, or always win at poker. Its a game, a game of life, I am sure there are many people who will suggest foolproof methods and such, but in the end its all down to luck IMO. How do end up with a guy who is not into you? I can understand ending up with a jerk, quite a few of my exes did, no wait, they were going with me at the time! Link to post Share on other sites
filarena Posted November 29, 2005 Share Posted November 29, 2005 Not the easiest advice to follow, but I say figure out how to spot jerks. I know, how can you, when they act nice they change? Well, from my experience jerks never really do hide it all that well. Nice guys know who the jerks are and can't understand why girls fall for them. Get some male friends who are always whining about this and ask their advice--then maybe consider taking it. For that matter, good female friends might know the difference too. A lot of times they get ignored b/c the girl thinks her friends are jealous that the cool guy likes her and not her friend, but that may not be the case. I can't think of one girl I was friends with who fell for a jerk without having been warned by at least one, if not several, of her friends. If that doesn't work, try and understand what draws them to you and use it as clues. Girls fall for jerks because they are confident, know what they want, are more exciting, and so on. Understand that as sexy as it may be for a guy to signal that he's in complete control, that could possibly mean he likes to stay in complete control. Guys who don't care about anything--that might well include you too. Link to post Share on other sites
Author melissa85 Posted November 29, 2005 Author Share Posted November 29, 2005 thanks guys... I really appreciate your input!! Seems like what you are saying is pretty much true!! Link to post Share on other sites
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