Far Away Dude Posted November 29, 2005 Share Posted November 29, 2005 Ok, here is the thing: We met a month ago at a web chat, she seemed a very centered person at first, and we came to the point that she wanted to send me a letter on paper...that`s when i made the most terrible mistake of my whole life...i gave her my home address (yes, i am such a m*r*n). On my effort to create a healthy FRIENDSHIP she always goes too far, lately she`s been scaring me to death coming up with stuff like she wants to take a plane to visit me (i`m from south america), if that happens my parents would kill me, not to mention that she`s married, she`s ten years older than me, has two little kids and a husband...a husband I`m not interested to mess with... Alright, I know it was my fault to give her my home address but, anyway i always let her know, FROM DAY ONE, that what we have online is just a friendship and i love her as a FRIEND...but nothing seems to stop her, i haven`t slept so well in days because of this...Right now i just feel so stupid for trusting her. She said the other day she would feel awful and jelous if she finds out i`m dating someone else ¿what should i do? I`m trying to figure it out myself, Thank you very much for your time Link to post Share on other sites
missopinionated2 Posted November 29, 2005 Share Posted November 29, 2005 FIRST tell you parents. Fess up. They're your best support. They might be angry but imagine what they'd be if a) she turned up there and/or b) you are hurt/abducted/killed by this predator/stalker. Second, with their support -- and let this freak know you have it -- tell her in very blunt terms that you are not interested and any further communication from her will be considered harassment and that you WILL do something about it, including informing her spouse of what she's up to. How old are you? If you're under the age of majority in your country, you also have access to legal recourse. She's stalking you. Link to post Share on other sites
Outcast Posted November 29, 2005 Share Posted November 29, 2005 Keep copies of your correspondence but email her and tell her that you've alerted the authorities and if she turns up in your town, she'll be arrested. Then tell her the friendship is over due to her behaviour and block all communications from her. Link to post Share on other sites
JayKay Posted November 29, 2005 Share Posted November 29, 2005 I agree with Outcast. Save all your emails to and from each other as proof of her harrassment. She doensn't sound too balanced! Alert the authorities and let your parents know. Yes, they'll be upset but they'll help you get this woman off your back. Take it as a learning experience! Link to post Share on other sites
jhurtinct Posted November 29, 2005 Share Posted November 29, 2005 I agree with the above, the olny thing in your favor is if it is the truth about being married w/kids and out of the country if you cut ties now your chances are better she wouldn't leave all that behind. But deffinetly cut all communication right away and learn a lesson thats scary:confused: Link to post Share on other sites
Neptune Posted November 29, 2005 Share Posted November 29, 2005 I agree with the replies also. Is there a chance it may be some sort of hoax? It really is an extreme situation if for real. She most likely would have serious mental problems. Link to post Share on other sites
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