Dookie_Dont Posted December 2, 2005 Share Posted December 2, 2005 I kind of led to this topic on another thread, but it seemed to fit more here in this topic. One of my friends was pretty much hooking me up with a girl and I knew nothing about it. Infact I had my interests going to somebody else for the time being, and he had been 'talking' to a girl for me. Indeed she was pretty, nice, all the good stuff. She gave him a note with her phone number in it, and wanted me to call her. I never did. I didn't want to start up some drama, I had already been trying to hook up with a different chick. Now its been like a month, and I still never called. But things with that one girl kind of blew off. So now I'm looking for a new girl, and I still have her number laying here. From what I've heard shes always wondered why I never called. So you think its worth a shot to just call her out of the blue. Also keep in mind I never really talked to the girl much, just like twice, and because it was at work it was on a professional level. She dosen't work there anymore. So what you all think? Link to post Share on other sites
agnf666 Posted December 2, 2005 Share Posted December 2, 2005 I would say maybe talk to your friend first before you talk to her. See if she is single and stuff... That would probably be a good thing to do first. Or Just go for it... What do you have to lose... Nothing really... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Dookie_Dont Posted December 2, 2005 Author Share Posted December 2, 2005 Your right I do have nothing to lose, but for some reason I can't bring myself to do it. I know I would like to start chatting it up with somebody new, but I feel as if I missed the window if you know what I mean. And I wonder how she will take to it, I mean how can a girl really dig me if shes never really even talked to me. Link to post Share on other sites
agnf666 Posted December 2, 2005 Share Posted December 2, 2005 The friend that was going to hook the both of you up needs to get the both of you together somehow. Like have a double date or something. So, that won't make it feel so wierd trying to up and talk to some girl you don't know. Here is how I would do this... Give your friend a call... Talk to them about this girl they were going to hook you up with a little while ago. Find out if she is single. Then maybe have you friend call her and talk her into going out on a group date with you and your friends. A Group Date is actually a good idea. This makes it a little more comfortable. That is the way I would do it. If it works out good... If not you had nothing to lose like I said... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Dookie_Dont Posted December 4, 2005 Author Share Posted December 4, 2005 I might call her this weeked. Man I've had the flu like horribly for the past week, its even knocked me out of going to work. I hate it. So I mean I'd hate to get her sick, but I guess I gotta start talking to her sometime atleast. Last I heard she went back to the guy she broke up with, cause I never called. So how about that. I suppose if I did call it couldn't be that hard to get them to seperate again if thats the circumstances. Link to post Share on other sites
agnf666 Posted December 4, 2005 Share Posted December 4, 2005 Well... If you call her and talk a few days then that might give you a chance to get over the flu... Sorry to hear about that... It does suck! You never know what she might be up too... She might be dating him or she might not be... Have you met her before... or is this a blind date thing??? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Dookie_Dont Posted December 4, 2005 Author Share Posted December 4, 2005 See I'm a supervisor, she used to work at the office. I had met her, and her boyfriend at the time. And I treated my times that I got to talk to her as professional as possible. Well her boyfriend quit, he wanted her to quit, she didn't want to but did anyway. So they broke up. So I've talked to her, but it was about work. I have seen her, and shes seen me. But it was all on the topic of work, plus she was taken at the time. So thats where it stands. Link to post Share on other sites
agnf666 Posted December 4, 2005 Share Posted December 4, 2005 Since she knows you then this might not be too hard... I would just go for it... Even though the both of you haven't talked about anything other then Work... I think there is a chance for improvement with that... So... Are you going to call her or are you going to try a different approach... What you need to do is try to run into this girl somewhere and get talking about things... That would be a good idea... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Dookie_Dont Posted December 4, 2005 Author Share Posted December 4, 2005 I figured I would just call her up, and use my personality to my advantage and just act like it was just the next day she gave me her number. Or..shew I don't know. Its hard to get any info on the situation, I just have a number to call. Yeehaw. Link to post Share on other sites
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