51680 Posted December 4, 2005 Share Posted December 4, 2005 My girlfriend and I had been dating for 6 and a half years as of 5 days ago, we haved lived together for 3 years and everything seemed fine had the little spats here and there but a month ago she asked me to move out so I did it lasted like 5 hours she came to the house where I was staying and never came in just drove in and turned around it was like 2 in morning so I was up and thinking so I drove back to her house and she was crying and said she could do this so I moved back in, now a month later shes tells me that she loves me but not physically and that we just got to comfortable with each other, also that we are a perfect match in everyway except that she does not like me race car. I'm 26 and she is 22 saud she didn't want to feel like she was married anymore but that she was comfortable with me and that she still loves me. Whats the best thing for me to do give her sometime,is a second chance in the works would it work,is there something shes saying that I haven't figured out yet? She also told me that she wants to be freinds and still do things together like we always did. Thank you for reading this and if you think you have some anwsers for me please let me know them I'M STILL VERY MUCH IN LOVE WITH THIS GRIL. Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
nextel Posted December 4, 2005 Share Posted December 4, 2005 Just because you are "very much in love with this girl" does not mean that you should be a fool for her. HINT: Stop being readily avaliable to accomodate her unreliable feelings. I would suggest you preoccupy your time with other things than being her emotional tampoon. Link to post Share on other sites
Author 51680 Posted December 4, 2005 Author Share Posted December 4, 2005 Well not sure if the NC will work for me becasue we have a dog together and I really missed playing ball out back, taking walks,and have him wake me up every morning, so we have agreed that I can take him anytime I want and can stop by to see when i want to. Also she has left a key outside for me to by able to stop and take the dog even if she is not home. What else is there to do should I just stop by get the dog. Just a general question have read a bunch of the posts in this section of the website and most of them have to do with the girl turning 21-22 years old and leaving or being unhappy any insite to this or theories? Whats the best way to approach even starting to get back together? Link to post Share on other sites
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