Confucious Posted December 4, 2005 Share Posted December 4, 2005 I've been with my boyfriend for more than half a year now. I know he loves me, though it's not as strong as my love for him is, and he's admitted this. Last year, when we got together, he and I had a mutual best friend. She's really pretty and quite popular. She's also known to be a flirt. But, during a summer apart, she pretty much almost cut contact with me, while continuing to call/email/IM/txt my bf... and while I tried calling/IM her, she made no effort to reply. My bf and I were getting closer, he'd drive long distances to see me, and we'd talk several times a day every day, sometimes til 4am. I know he puts me first, but, when I told him about this girl, he thought I was worrying too much. Then she made a pass at him, and my bf realised I was right all along. He said he'd tell her to stop calling him, but he ended up laughing and talking and hugging her instead. She even insulted me, and instead of sticking up for me, he agreed with her. This was about 3 months ago. He's stopped talking to her since I threatened to end things with us, but some random stupid things keep happening. I found them studying together, and sometimes, I swear it looks like he's watching her with a weird smile. It makes me really uncomfortable and I don't know what to do. He's made changes for me, but I still feel second-best. Any thoughts/advice would really be appreciated. I need an outsiders perspective. Link to post Share on other sites
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