I apologized, now what?

[Basic]

Things were reaching a turning point, very soon we would be a real item.

We both felt this way, we were moving from friendly to love.

The sex has been good. But we are not perfect matches in all areas, a source of concern to both of us.

 

I think that in the long termwe wouldn't work out. But I do think a few years would suit us both. (we didn't actually discuss this)

 

With this turning point pressure, she became very sensative to anything I said. I screwed up, I apologized once in person, once on phone (same day)

She was "I just don't know"

 

It's been several days now, no contact. I'd like things to continue but am not desparate. I'd like an answer one way or the other.

 

I made the 1st two contacts, it's her turn. How long should I wait till calling for an answer? Or should I not call ..ever? What approach do I take?

 

If she doesn't call for a week or so, is it possible she's still thinking or is just done with me.

Thank You all

[Basic]

I just looked around LS some. Looks like I shouldn't call her.

 

I do have a fear that she'll rebound to another if I don't keep my foot in door.

But why be desparate and lose her respect.

[slubberdegullion]

You did what most men do: you ended up apologizing for something, but you're really not sure what. So, to keep the peace and assuage her oh-so-fragile ego, you did what you thought was best.

 

I'd recommend to try and call her once more, but no apology this time because you've already done it. If she wants to re-hash this hazy insult over and over and over again, by all means let her, but just let her vent without saying any more about it.

 

Living whilst looking in the rear-view mirror at some unintentional slight or hanging on to some perceived insult is damaging her and the budding relationship. Time for her to get over it.

 

Good luck.

[Basic]

Thanks Slubber, That's very sound advice. I probably would have apologized again.