Donut1238 Posted December 7, 2005 Share Posted December 7, 2005 i Really like this girl and i want her to like me but i don't no what to talk about i need help she a popular girl with a fine body what topics you seggest? Link to post Share on other sites
country gal Posted December 7, 2005 Share Posted December 7, 2005 its easier than you think.... find out what she likes and get her to do the talking - then listen. if you dont know what she likes ask her. ask questions that get her talking about the details of things that are important to her.... and listen to her answers (showing her htat you are really listening is a big turn on). Link to post Share on other sites
katiebour Posted December 8, 2005 Share Posted December 8, 2005 This is an easy one *smile* One of the best dates I ever had was one where the guy and I went out, and spent about an hour or two talking. Well, I did most of it, because he continually redirected the conversation my way. He asked me about my family, my job, my hopes for the future, former relationships, views on religion, politics, and so on. After each question, if I asked him the same about himself, he would answer in under a minute, then redirect the questions back to me. It was very flattering to have someone display that much interest in me- and he didn't talk about himself for hours on end either. He got lucky as a result Link to post Share on other sites
ReluctantRomeo Posted December 8, 2005 Share Posted December 8, 2005 Country gal and Katie are spot on - girls find good listeners hot. Ask a question, follow the answer carefully and ask for details. With a little practice, you'll start to notice the details that she - consciously or subconsciously - would like you to follow up. Girls usually leave a lot of such clues in their conversation - your job is to find them. Follow a couple of clues successfully, and you can get from a banal question such as "how was your day" into deep talking. As Katie says, whenever she asks you a question, answer it with a few details, but quickly pass the mike back to her. This makes you more mysterious. Girls are natural detectives and will rise to the challenge. And if after a couple of dates like this, she isn't pushing to find out more about you, then she's self-absorbed and you can move on. Link to post Share on other sites
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