babydoll1585 Posted December 8, 2005 Share Posted December 8, 2005 my boyfriend and i have been together for a year. i have always suspected him of cheating on me b/c he had a phyco ex who wanted him back at any cost. we struggled with this problem for a while. Then we had other things to deal with, his family didnt liek our relationship b/c of the probs and we had done this for us. Recently i found out that he cheated on me, and i had to hear it from her. She told me everything that happened and that he told her he loved her for 2 weeks and then when she demanded for him to choose and he didnt pick her she felt bad. The problem is not the whole cheating thing but instead that i know my bf is a flirt, and i do not trust him at all now. and even though both feel remorse i cant believe all they have said. i feel she still loves him and i know she feels he is an a**h***. But i cant help to think it is b/c he didnt choose her. he is trying to get back to with me, and i told him i needed time. now i keep hearing that he told this girl the only reason he was with me is cuz he though i was pregnant, and that he flirted with my bff, when i checked his email he had a registry to a adultfriendfinder that he didnt comple tthe whole form for. I aske dhim about it and he said he felt like he lost me forever and just needed me to be happy with anyone else. i dont know wouldnt he be trying to be with me and get me back and not do that even if he did think he had lost me. Idk how guys think please help? I am mad that no one said anyhting to e about it before and waited until now, i feel its now that they dont want me to be with him so they say all of it. i want to belive him so badly. and we even talked about getting him a lie detector test. I know i a young and i could move on and find anyone else but i do love him waht should i do.... Link to post Share on other sites
JadeStar Posted December 8, 2005 Share Posted December 8, 2005 I think you need to ask yourself, why you want to stay or put up with someone who is a cheat/flirt? He even logged onto an adult website after the fact, and tells you that he feels you would be happier with someone else. that should speak volumes to you. I think maybe he wants out and instead of coming clean about it and telling you, his actions are showing you what he really wants. Maybe you need to move on. Jade Link to post Share on other sites
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