wanda1974 Posted December 9, 2005 Share Posted December 9, 2005 I wasn't sure which topic to put this under....Here's my story. I have been with a married man for about 9 months, though broke it off with him about a month ago. He told me from the time I met him, that his divorce was "in the courts". I took it upon myself about a month ago, to look his divorce up in the court system....guess what??? It was never even filed. Therefore, I broke it off. I work with this man, and myself, and the whole workcrew go out once a week. The MM still comes out every week in hopes that he can come home with me. Well, this passed week, I brought home his best friend. I know this sounds horrible, I don't think he knew, or if he did, he's not saying anything. I met his best friend, let's say "Tim", a long time ago through the MM. I had the hots for him since I met him, but never acted on it because of the MM. However, Tim is extremely my type, and I would like to pursue something with him. After the other night of bringing him home with me, I feel we are even more compatable mpw sexually. I have not admitted anything to the MM, because Tim told me just to keep my mouth shut about it, because he knew I felt guilty. But after thinking about it, MM was with me for 9 months, and went home to a wife every night, so WTF? My question....I have not heard from Tim since tuesday night when he left my house. Do I pursue this man, even though he is best friends with MM???? I can see myself and Tim in one hell of a relationship. Should I call him??? Link to post Share on other sites
JadeStar Posted December 9, 2005 Share Posted December 9, 2005 Do you feel you pursued a relationship with your MM's best friend out of revenge because you found out your MM never filed for a divorce like he claimed? Jade Link to post Share on other sites
Author wanda1974 Posted December 9, 2005 Author Share Posted December 9, 2005 Jade, There is no revenge involved here. I have liked this guy since I met him.. , and I have actually told the MM that if it weren't for him being in my life, I would be all over Tim, because he is more of a match for me... Link to post Share on other sites
JadeStar Posted December 9, 2005 Share Posted December 9, 2005 Ok well since you broke things off with the MM, I'm sure it will feel/be a little weird for you to be dating his best friend. However, if you have broke things off with the MM, I don't see why it would matter if you're with his best friend anyway. I understand that he may feel guilty of dating you because you were once involved with the MM, but thats something he will need to get over. Jade Link to post Share on other sites
Author wanda1974 Posted December 9, 2005 Author Share Posted December 9, 2005 On the night Tim came home with me, he had already left the bar we were at, with MM, but then came back to come and get me and bring me home. So , I'm sure he had some kind of motive in mind....it wasn't just me. Link to post Share on other sites
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