noxkuse Posted December 9, 2005 Share Posted December 9, 2005 My best friend of 8 years and my wife of 5 years have been calling and texting each other every day for the last 3 weeks.He is my 3 year olds godfather.My wife lost her brother a year and ahalf ago and my friend came back into our lives about 4 months later.So he kinda filled in as her new brother.They say they are like brother and sister.But latley,They have been calling and texting when they know Im at work.If I am at home she doesnt think I know they are texting when she is in the back of house,Plus totes her phone everywhere she goes in the house.She wont leave it out in front of me(thats how i feel).I have seen some of the text they are harmless,I guess.I talked to her about it and she said he is like a brother not to worry.Then on my birthday he sent how are you doing: she,going to make a home video: he,I want to see it: she,how bad: he,will do anything: she,what kind of tape: he,I would like to see a tape of just you: she,of me: he,I would be happy just watching you: she, would you make a tape with me(I done this one when I seen where it was going): he,would love to, but i love my bro then he sent back it would be very hard to turn you down just dont want any trouble.He was drunk with guy friends when this was going on. I blew up on both of them.Am I wrong,They said I didnt trust them.They knew their friendship would be a problem with me.Now they are both mad at me is this normal thanks Im going crazy did I do wrong Link to post Share on other sites
Mz. Pixie Posted December 9, 2005 Share Posted December 9, 2005 Where there is smoke there is fire. She enjoys the attention. If she's not physically cheating this is emotional cheating. Insist that she break contact with him. Then she must keep her phone open to you, give you all her e mail passwords etc. She must agree to go to marriage counseling if she wants you to stay. Link to post Share on other sites
Author noxkuse Posted December 9, 2005 Author Share Posted December 9, 2005 They both are pissed at me.They act like I broke the biggest trust in the world for thinking something may be going on.she doesnt want anything to do with me since,and he hasnt talked to me since. Link to post Share on other sites
Kitteney Posted December 10, 2005 Share Posted December 10, 2005 They both are pissed at me.They act like I broke the biggest trust in the world for thinking something may be going on.she doesnt want anything to do with me since,and he hasnt talked to me since. Both are getting all defensive, hmmm, I would tend to think something is going on. Link to post Share on other sites
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