damwinston Posted December 10, 2005 Share Posted December 10, 2005 I was dating this guy this summer, I think. Then he didn't talk to me for four months - don't know why. Then recently I started talking to him. All of his friends lied and said things that I didn't say which upset him (and me). So now we have been talking and I became his "girlfriend." Now his cell phone is turned off. Common sense says leave it alone I know. However, he owes me money (of course) and I think that I am in love with him. I know I should forget him and the money and move on, but I can't. I have tried. Is this all just a game to him?? He has said it is not and some of his friends have said that he has never acted like this before with a girl - that he is really in love with me. He has said to me (and my parents) that after the New Year things will be different. But I don't know what to do about the phone being turned off. Please tell me what to do - but say it nicely because I have lost a lot over this guy and can't take much more. dammy Link to post Share on other sites
meowpurr Posted December 10, 2005 Share Posted December 10, 2005 Sounds like this guy is a total loser. I would run fast and not look back. As for the $$$, It depends on how much he owes you. If it's significant, you might to ask a friend to see if he or she can get him to pay up, if not significant enuff, then I would just go on with life. Try to get over him. Link to post Share on other sites
Author damwinston Posted December 10, 2005 Author Share Posted December 10, 2005 He owes me about $1600. I have asked our mutual friend to deal with it - he won't. He is angry about the whole thing - that this guy and I ever got together. Somehow this doesn't feel like it did when my "heart was broken" in high school. High school was easier. dammy Link to post Share on other sites
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