stood up yesterday

[Confused]

I have been dating a beautiful 29 year old single mother of one. We had sex on our first date and it was the best ever for me. She lives with her parents and we had made plans for her to spend the night last night while her son is visiting his dad. Friday night we saw each other but Saturday she never called or showed up. I called her in the morning and once more in the evening but no one answered. She has caller ID so she knows I called.

 

I am interested in this woman but I feel that I cannot call her again. What should I do?

[Confused]

I want to ad that we have been dating for a week and the only warning signs I can think of happened Friday when she said that she was feeling depressed. I inquired as to why but she did not elaborate...just said that she felt like that sometimes. It was a little out of character for her.

 

We had yet to talk seriously about what we wanted in the relationship. She did make some long-term references when she talked about alternate birth control and vacationing with the family during Christmas so I felt that we would talk seriously when the time was right.

I have been dating a beautiful 29 year old single mother of one. We had sex on our first date and it was the best ever for me. She lives with her parents and we had made plans for her to spend the night last night while her son is visiting his dad. Friday night we saw each other but Saturday she never called or showed up. I called her in the morning and once more in the evening but no one answered. She has caller ID so she knows I called. I am interested in this woman but I feel that I cannot call her again. What should I do?

[Tony T]

Something happened. I suspect your relationship may have been going too fast for her and she's a bit scared. Slow things down a bit. Wait for her to call. I promise she will.

 

If you don't hear from her in a week, then give her another buzz...but don't call from your home phone. If you do and mark your call "private", she'll know it's you. Also, try not to use a pay phone because that comes up on caller ID as a pay phone and she won't like that either. Keep calling from other phones until she answers.

 

I think you are entitled to know what happened last night. I'm sure it's something screwy...most probably the fear thing...or maybe there was an emergency. But she's the one who owe you a call. Don't call her under any circumstances for a week, unless you hear from her first.

 

There's a good possibility that when the dad came to pick up the son or when she dropped him off, your lady mentioned she had plans with you and he got jealous and bent out of shape. That happens. You may not know the entire story about the ex. His anger or jealousy may be why they aren't together anymore. He may have threatened to take the kid away if she saw you. Who knows...she may never tell you exactly what the scoop is.

 

Stay calm. This has happened before in history and the world is still spinning around just fine.

 

I am assuming it was very clear to her that the two of you had made these plans.

[redvoodooI]

I have been dating a beautiful 29 year old single mother of one. We had sex on our first date and it was the best ever for me. She lives with her parents and we had made plans for her to spend the night last night while her son is visiting his dad. Friday night we saw each other but Saturday she never called or showed up. I called her in the morning and once more in the evening but no one answered. She has caller ID so she knows I called. I am interested in this woman but I feel that I cannot call her again. What should I do?

things moved to fast a man cant show a women all his cards at once, women like a little mystery but most of a challenge!! I believe that when a women has high interested level in a man SHE NEVER BREAKS DATES!! only women with little interest do. Dont call her back!!! it will elevate you challenge effect , if you call her you"ll look eager

 

in the mean time go meet other women.