bellringer7 Posted December 12, 2005 Share Posted December 12, 2005 O.K.-long story short...was married at 22 (way to early) couldn't stop cheating, finally got divorced. Had a few relationships since but couldn't stop cheating. Broke a couple off without getting caught because i couldn't take the guilt. Have had a girlfriend for a year who i love dearly. Went out the other night and got drunk and was totally hitting on a co-worker. Fortunately nothing happened but it scared the s__t out of me! I didn't do anything but i cant stop thinking of this girl and have a total curious factor i just can't shake. I haven't done anything YET, don't think i will but i just don't understand why this mentality doesn't seem to leave me. I've learned my lessons the hard way...have 2 kids i have to struggle to see from my divorce that pains me and i just want to be a good guy...seriously i'm not looking for sympathy or anything like that it just seems like i can't help myself when i'm around someone attractive that may be attracted to me. I just want to love my girlfriend and never want to feel tempted but i just can't shake this feeling of wondering what that other person would be like sexually? Link to post Share on other sites
JadeStar Posted December 12, 2005 Share Posted December 12, 2005 Perhaps you need to seek counseling for this issue. Someone that will help you get to the root of why you feel the way you do. Since I'm not a doc/counselor I can only speculate as to what it may or may not be. Possible, that you were abused at some point in your life? You associate sex with love? Your parents cheated on one another? You have been in relationships here you were cheated on, so you do it to others? I have no idea, thats why you need to go see a counselor and hopefully they can help you. Assumming this is something you want to learn to get ahold on. Jade Link to post Share on other sites
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