BornUnderPunches97 Posted March 13, 2024 Share Posted March 13, 2024 I hate the idea of a woman being affectionate towards me. I spend my entire life being treated like trash by people and now I'm suppose to believe someone may "like" and "care" about me? I dumped every girl I dated after few weeks because they started to like me a little too much Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted March 13, 2024 Share Posted March 13, 2024 If you feel you're a misogynist, you can try to find women who'll agree to no strings sex. Link to post Share on other sites
Author BornUnderPunches97 Posted March 13, 2024 Author Share Posted March 13, 2024 I fell like I'm more misanthropic than misogynist. Then again, sex isn't really a issue here. Link to post Share on other sites
Gebidozo Posted March 13, 2024 Share Posted March 13, 2024 52 minutes ago, BornUnderPunches97 said: I hate the idea of a woman being affectionate towards me. I spend my entire life being treated like trash by people and now I'm suppose to believe someone may "like" and "care" about me? I dumped every girl I dated after few weeks because they started to like me a little too much “Treated like trash” is too vague. How exactly have people been treating you for your entire life? For what reason? Supposing that you really had terrible luck with people, there is absolutely no reason to assume that this bad luck will persist. If 10 women really treated you like trash, it’s entirely possible that the 11th woman will adore you. If you fear emotional attachment, why do you even date women? Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted March 13, 2024 Share Posted March 13, 2024 If you dumped every girl you dated after few weeks because they started to like you a little too much, it simply means you enjoy rejecting and hurting women. Sadly some people who were bullied become bullies themselves. It's better you set them free anyway. No one wants to be with a hater. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted March 13, 2024 Share Posted March 13, 2024 So stop dating women? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
introverted1 Posted March 13, 2024 Share Posted March 13, 2024 You could get some therapy to discover why someone caring about you is so threatening. Many people find that life with a caring partner is very rewarding. You are missing out. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Alpacalia Posted March 13, 2024 Share Posted March 13, 2024 In simpler terms, it’s normal to feel uneasy when someone is showing you affection because you’re used to being the one in control and their feelings could potentially challenge that dynamic. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted March 13, 2024 Share Posted March 13, 2024 12 hours ago, BornUnderPunches97 said: I hate the idea of a woman being affectionate towards me. I spend my entire life being treated like trash by people and now I'm suppose to believe someone may "like" and "care" about me? I dumped every girl I dated after few weeks because they started to like me a little too much it's time to see a therapist. Your past negative experiences are preventing you from appreciating the good things in life. If you want that to change you will need help. If you prefer to keep things the way they are just keep on having ONSs. Link to post Share on other sites
Author BornUnderPunches97 Posted March 13, 2024 Author Share Posted March 13, 2024 7 hours ago, introverted1 said: You could get some therapy to discover why someone caring about you is so threatening. Many people find that life with a caring partner is very rewarding. You are missing out. I rather miss out than deal with people Link to post Share on other sites
Author BornUnderPunches97 Posted March 13, 2024 Author Share Posted March 13, 2024 18 hours ago, Wiseman2 said: If you dumped every girl you dated after few weeks because they started to like you a little too much, it simply means you enjoy rejecting and hurting women. Sadly some people who were bullied become bullies themselves. It's better you set them free anyway. No one wants to be with a hater. Yeah I enjoy hurting women I suppose But I'm the victim here Link to post Share on other sites
Author BornUnderPunches97 Posted March 13, 2024 Author Share Posted March 13, 2024 18 hours ago, Gebidozo said: “Treated like trash” is too vague. How exactly have people been treating you for your entire life? For what reason? Supposing that you really had terrible luck with people, there is absolutely no reason to assume that this bad luck will persist. If 10 women really treated you like trash, it’s entirely possible that the 11th woman will adore you. If you fear emotional attachment, why do you even date women? The girls I had been in relationship treated me very well. My trauma started way before I started dating Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted March 13, 2024 Share Posted March 13, 2024 If the girls you had been in relationship treated you very well and you dump them for it, they're the victims, not you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author BornUnderPunches97 Posted March 13, 2024 Author Share Posted March 13, 2024 4 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: If the girls you had been in relationship treated you very well and you dump them for it, they're the victims, not you. Perhaps, but it would be only a matter of time they would try to manipulate and control me. I cherish my autonomy a little bit too much Link to post Share on other sites
Alpacalia Posted March 13, 2024 Share Posted March 13, 2024 You need to stop dating women. You sound like a toxic tampoon. Go work on yourself and your attitude, and realize that women are just people like everyone else. Learn how to not treat people like trash, and maybe then someone will like and care about you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author BornUnderPunches97 Posted March 13, 2024 Author Share Posted March 13, 2024 3 minutes ago, Alpacalia said: You need to stop dating women. You sound like a toxic tampoon. Go work on yourself and your attitude, and realize that women are just people like everyone else. Learn how to not treat people like trash, and maybe then someone will like and care about you. A little too late for that I'm afraid Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted March 13, 2024 Share Posted March 13, 2024 2 hours ago, BornUnderPunches97 said: I rather miss out than deal with people That's a choice. So what if anything do you want from LS? Link to post Share on other sites
JackFlash Posted March 14, 2024 Share Posted March 14, 2024 On 3/12/2024 at 5:32 PM, BornUnderPunches97 said: I hate the idea of a woman being affectionate towards me. I spend my entire life being treated like trash by people and now I'm suppose to believe someone may "like" and "care" about me? I dumped every girl I dated after few weeks because they started to like me a little too much look up avoidant attachment dude! that is YOU. Get to work on it, I promise long term it'll help you out with this. It's the ONLY solution . Link to post Share on other sites
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