Melissa Posted August 4, 1999 Share Posted August 4, 1999 I've liked my brother's best friend whose four years older than me for two years. I love the guy to death but really don't know how he feels. We both always flirt we each other all the time. He knows I have really deep feelings for him. So what should I do? If he's worried about my brother he would't care in fact I think he would like that a lot better than if I dated a total stranger. Or maybe it's the age difference, but I don't understand why that should matter. Link to post Share on other sites
Constance Posted August 6, 1999 Share Posted August 6, 1999 I think that he is afraid that if he dated you, it might affect his friendship w/ your brother. I think that you should ask your brother if he would be grossed out if you dated his bud before you dug deeper to see what feelings the guy has for you. Because you wouldn't want to find out that he's crazy for you, only to hear that he's unwilling to date you cuz of his friendship. This is one of those rare occasions that asking permission is the RIGHT thing to do. It seems like he really likes you, but just hasn't talked to your brother yet. If you think it's the age difference, then just ask. If it is, he'll probly still be willing to be your friend. Best of luck! I hope it works out for you! ~Constance~ I've liked my brother's best friend whose four years older than me for two years. I love the guy to death but really don't know how he feels. We both always flirt we each other all the time. He knows I have really deep feelings for him. So what should I do? If he's worried about my brother he would't care in fact I think he would like that a lot better than if I dated a total stranger. Or maybe it's the age difference, but I don't understand why that should matter. Link to post Share on other sites
Melissa Posted August 9, 1999 Share Posted August 9, 1999 I think that he is afraid that if he dated you, it might affect his friendship w/ your brother. I think that you should ask your brother if he would be grossed out if you dated his bud before you dug deeper to see what feelings the guy has for you. Because you wouldn't want to find out that he's crazy for you, only to hear that he's unwilling to date you cuz of his friendship. This is one of those rare occasions that asking permission is the RIGHT thing to do. It seems like he really likes you, but just hasn't talked to your brother yet. If you think it's the age difference, then just ask. If it is, he'll probly still be willing to be your friend. Best of luck! I hope it works out for you! ~Constance~ Thank you so much for the advice. The only thing is I'm to chicken to ask him about the age thing. He is so sweet and he gets better every day. I just wish I knew what he was thinking in that head of his then I would know what to do. Thanks again! Link to post Share on other sites
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