StillFishin Posted December 13, 2005 Share Posted December 13, 2005 I have been single for a long time. In fact i dont think i have ever been on a serious date. Im 17 and a junior in high school. There is this one freshmen girl that caught my eye and I immeadiately thought that i should ask her out. The thing is Im really shy and I have no classes with her. I need to know some way to spark a conversation with her. Not only that but i need to know what i should say to her. thanks Link to post Share on other sites
Yamaha Posted December 13, 2005 Share Posted December 13, 2005 Do you know any of her friends? Friends can be a good way to meet her. If not then you are going to have to let her know of your interest by smiling at her and opening your mouth. Being shy is a problem as women like a confident man so if you want to make a good impression you are going to have to ignore your stomach and sweaty palms and act confident. The more you do this the easier it will be, chatting with women effortlessly and wonder why you were scared. Link to post Share on other sites
Author StillFishin Posted December 13, 2005 Author Share Posted December 13, 2005 Its not that i get nervous when i see her (which is ONLY in the hall). I dont show any signs of being nervous when i see her its just i feel taht it would be impossible for me to say anything to her. I dont think i know any of her friends b/c she is a freshmen making most of her friends the same. I REALLY want to say something to her ,but i just dont know what to say or do.... Link to post Share on other sites
Yamaha Posted December 13, 2005 Share Posted December 13, 2005 Does she show any interest in you? ( smiling, eye contact ) Link to post Share on other sites
Author StillFishin Posted December 14, 2005 Author Share Posted December 14, 2005 She doesnt but thats because we have never met but thats not to say that she wouldnt if she did know me Link to post Share on other sites
GivenUp0083 Posted December 15, 2005 Share Posted December 15, 2005 ok, let me get this straight......you're 17 but you've been single for a really long time....? ummm, how long exactly have you been single? since you were 10? at your age, I don't think you need to worry about how long you've been single, I've had about 7 girlfriends from ages 17-22. I'm pretty sure you shouldn't be thinking about how long you've been single. High school is a little more different and complicated scene that the "real world" dating scheme. In high school, I would just go up to, say hi, try to make her laugh a little, joke around with her, if she laughs and makes a lot of eye contact, ask her for her number and give her a call after school. Try to find out if she has any similar classes, maybe you can study together. Or just ask her to go to a movie sometime. In high school, she'll probably get the hint that you like her. One problem with high school girls...........even if they like you, they may not go out with you based on what others will think. In your situation, you're older, so she may even go out with just because she thinks it will make her look cool. I don't know what you're looking for at your age, but anything super serious isn't the way to go because you're too young to know what you want and/or looking for. You are going to change and your life is going to change about 500 times between now and when you hit 30. Stop worrying and just have fun and enjoy being a kid. Link to post Share on other sites
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