Setting me up?

[Dumbass]

Hey all-

 

Just wondering what you all think about something:

 

Had a girlfriend, and she's since dropped me with the "i need to concentrate on getting my own sh*t together" line, but looking back, it does seem like she had a problem with jealousy....Look at my thread on the second chances forum for more on that, but lets just say that wrestling round with some dude who's horny for ya in front of your new boyfriend isnt too cool....

 

But anyway, here's the deal:

 

After 2 weeks of spending every waking moment having the best time ever with this girl, and getting SO close onso many levels (mutually), she had me take an aids test with her, and then held off on sex for another 10 days....OK she's been abused as a child, etc, so i understood...No prob....

 

But one thing she was doing the whole time, and even after we got intimate, was to keep telling me about the great road-head she gives, and how this guy used to love her tongue piercing, and how she swivels her hips to bring guys off so good, and how she had sex with a guy in a karate uniform, on a bowflex machine, how multi orgasmic she is, etc etc....

 

I was pretty annoyed about hearing about all these guys (who treated her like **** and hurt her pretty bad) getting all the goodies....

 

I never really said anything except once to say "hey ya know, i really dont like to hear about all the great sex you had with all these other guys"

 

Her reply was that since she wasn't giving me any, she just wanted me to know that she wasn't a prude or a tease...

 

This chick is 24, and I'm 33....

 

What do you think? Lame move? Should she be pissed at me that I expressed a bit of unhappiness with this (it kept happening over and over, it wasnt that she just mentioned it once...and she would mention the guys by name!)

 

Do you think that this would tend to make a guy feel a bit weird? Or is it just me?

 

Thanks

[slubberdegullion]

Should she be pissed at me that I expressed a bit of unhappiness with this

Nope. If she's pissed at you because you told her that you were uncomfortable, then obviously she really doesn't give a s*** what your feelings are about it. She's got "passive-aggressive-drama-queen" written all over her.

 

Not relationship material.

Do you think that this would tend to make a guy feel a bit weird?

It's supposed to. She's toying with your emotions.

 

Buh-bye now.

[Happy Noodle Boy]

It's not you man. She has no reason at all to be pissed at you..None! I've dealt with that type before. Through my experience I've found that when a girl talks like that there's one of two things going on: 1) She's just not that bright and has no concept of rational social interaction or 2) Secret motive - Meaning it's totally on purpose and wants to see how you'll react. Again, that's just what I've notice through my own situations. Your case can be a completely different story but nevertheless, if you hadn't said anything you'd still be hearing about other dude's dongs.

Chick sounds like a freak anyway. Freaks are cool at parties and thats it.

[witabix]

Don't think you did anything wrong here. Her sexploits sound like some movies I have seen, did she have a dodgy German accent?

 

I think the clue was in her abuse, she may be overcompensating for that, the messages she was trying to give you were that she was hot in bed, and how much you should want her, because all these other guys did. I would wonder about the mentality behind this behavior too.

 

Of course I could be full of s***!