Christmas Parties?

[thegamedale]

Hi,

 

I am a final year high school student and i was wondering how to get with girls at christmas parties? There is this one girl i like, but she knows i like her... she might not be too keen on me as she doesent seem to show much interest!

 

However, how do i go about attracting her at our schools christmas party? Everyone will be a little drunk, so i suppose that will help. It will also be hard spotting her and talking to her as there will be alot of people there. Oh yeah, and i have never really spoken to her!

[slubberdegullion]

First, stay sober. When everyone else is three sheets to the wind, that makes it so much easier to hone in on your target.

 

Make no more than two approaches. The first one should be very direct: Hi, I'm thegamedale. I've seen you around. How are you enjoying the party?

 

Evaluate her response. If she vomits, that's a bad sign.

 

Chat for a bit, then excuse yourself to get some dip. Take your time; 15 minutes, anyway. Then go back.

 

"Well," you say, "it looks as if you want some food, you'd better hurry up cuz it's starting to run out. C'mon, let's get some more."

 

Point is, get her to leave her location and accompany you to the food table, or the bar, or whatever. Chit chat again. Evaluate her response.

 

Again, vomitus is not a positive sign.

 

If things go well, then keep it very casual. But if she doesn't respond in the manner that you'd prefer, then back off entirely. 100%. No chatting, no eye contact, no brush-up-against-her stuff.

 

Good luck.

[thegamedale]

Hi,

 

Things didnt go quite as planned. I actually got quite drunk and so was she i think. She was ignoring me, so i went up to her and asked her why she doesent like me, and she said shes interested in someone else, she didnt mention who .

 

So then the last i saw of her, she was talking to some guy and went somewhere with him. Everytime i saw her, she just completely blanked me.

 

I am close friends with her best friend and she said shes not worth it, forget her. She even made me delete her number from my phone..lol- and no, her best friend is not interested in me, we are just good friends.

 

Thanks

[Devildog]

lol- and no, her best friend is not interested in me, we are just good friends.

 

Yeah, right.

[lilmoma1973]

Hi,

 

I am a final year high school student and i was wondering how to get with girls at christmas parties? There is this one girl i like, but she knows i like her... she might not be too keen on me as she doesent seem to show much interest!

 

However, how do i go about attracting her at our schools christmas party? Everyone will be a little drunk, so i suppose that will help. It will also be hard spotting her and talking to her as there will be alot of people there. Oh yeah, and i have never really spoken to her!

 

Just be yourself and the rest will fall into place!! How do you know that she don't like you ? Sometimes some women liked to be chased pursued not her doing that!! Have you ever asked her out ? Just because she knows you like her doesn't mean she going to make a move first ,she could be shy !!

[thegamedale]

Just be yourself and the rest will fall into place!! How do you know that she don't like you ? Sometimes some women liked to be chased pursued not her doing that!! Have you ever asked her out ? Just because she knows you like her doesn't mean she going to make a move first ,she could be shy !!

 

 

Yeah but i know now she doesent like me, she even said. She is really shy, but at the same time, she thinks no one is good enough for her. I should just stop wasting my time and move on.... or should i?