RZA-Man Posted December 17, 2005 Share Posted December 17, 2005 I was dumped by my ex gf of 8 months almost 4 weeks ago. After practicing NC for 19 days I caved in last Sunday and called her. The conversation was ok and we avoided any talk of our relationship. I also didn't tell her how much I missed her or that I wanted her back. But now I have the urge to call her, tell her how much she means to me and make one last all or nothing attempt to get her back! Should I do this or am I just pushing back the healing process? Help! Link to post Share on other sites
monkeybars Posted December 18, 2005 Share Posted December 18, 2005 you are breaking the healing process..don't call..if she wants to talk to you, she will call you. Don't ever beg someone to be with you, it's beneath you and you are worth more than that. If she can't see your value, she is not worth it, and I guarantee you, there is a woman waiting for you to complete your healing, so you two can finally meet. Finish healing, forget about her, and walk torwards the woman who is wondering why she can't meet any decent men..she IS waiting!!! Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted December 18, 2005 Share Posted December 18, 2005 I bumped a wonderful and helpful thread up. Here's the link too! http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?t=56954 Read it! No Foolin' is a wise person and has really helped many people on LS. Try not to call her anymore. You aren't part of her life and she really isn't part of your daily life either. As much as you want to talk to her, it serves no purpose. It will only make you feel awful afterwards! Next time you get the urge, read that thread. Start posting away and distract yourself of her. Keep busy, go hangout with buddies! The less you think about her the less you'll care. Time does heal all wounds. Link to post Share on other sites
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