How to experience touch?

[Admiral Thrawn]

Say you just want to feel someone's hair, hug them, or grope them.

 

They are your co-workers, or someone you know.

 

There is a 1/10 chance someone will report you, but you dont want to be in that position.

 

What would you do? Would you compliment her hair and start playing with it? Would you just do it, and let the chips fall where they may?

 

So, if you are touch-hungry, what are you going to do?

[Gold Pile]

You need to develop a chemistry with someone B4 you go around touching.

Uninvited touching is often most unwelcome.

 

Sneaky: claim she has something in her hair, she fails (you say) to remove it...you offer to do it for her.

 

conceal a dead bumble bee in your hand. Tell her there's a bee on her. Tell her not to move...pinch her anywhere you want...show her the dead bee.

You copped a feel and are a hero too! That brings back memories.

[Outcast]

This from the guy who advocates dog-spitting.

 

Do not go around touching people without their permission. Being 'touch-hungry' sounds a little creepy to me. Get a pet.

[Admiral Thrawn]

You need to develop a chemistry with someone B4 you go around touching.

Uninvited touching is often most unwelcome.

 

Sneaky: claim she has something in her hair, she fails (you say) to remove it...you offer to do it for her.

 

conceal a dead bumble bee in your hand. Tell her there's a bee on her. Tell her not to move...pinch her anywhere you want...show her the dead bee.

You copped a feel and are a hero too! That brings back memories.

 

Ok, you are talking to an INCEL guy here so you'll have to excuse me if I come across as a bit of a moron when it comes to the ladies, how do you know when there is chemistry? Suppose there is just a good rapport with a bit of warmth, does that pass the threshold?

 

That sounds like a cool strategy, except for the fact that it is winter here, with ice and snow, and all of the bees are either in hybernation or dead. Is there a better idea than a dead bee - since I cant find any dead bee around.

[Admiral Thrawn]

This from the guy who advocates dog-spitting.

 

Do not go around touching people without their permission. Being 'touch-hungry' sounds a little creepy to me. Get a pet.

 

A wig made out of real female human hair and mounted on an articial female face is better. That option may be considered in the future, and I may have a wig collection of Blonde, Brunettte, Red Hair, Indian, Chinese, you name it, he he he he.

[Outcast]

Oh damn. Another alter, eh, GP?

[Maestro]

Busses and trains are great places to cop a feel too!!! Use these tips to reduce your risk and liability.

Here we go:

 

1. avoid detection. (ie. rush-hour or when the vehicle is otherwise full)

2. choose your victim

3. nonchalantly move into position (standing is preffered)

4. hold on (not to her, but a handrail or strap)

5. wait

 

Now, here comes the fun part! As the vehicle begins to move, use momentum, gravity, and velocity to your advantage. By 'accidently' leaning, swerving, bumping and grinding you will inevitably develop that sense convergece you are so desperatly longing for. The possibilities are endless! ie. speedbumps, potholes, stop signs, etc. Hell, buy a day-pass and 'ride' all day!!!

 

 

 

 

hope this helps!!! you guys are hysterical!

 

 

 

 

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[Gold Pile]

Oh damn. Another alter, eh, GP?

 

No, no, no, no!

[Conspire]

This question is rather simple...

 

You shouldn't touch anyone without permission. You need to be very friendly with someone to allow it to happen. You should be able to recognise this so-called "Chemistry" yourself.

 

Only when this "Chemistry" has been established can you move onto "Biology"...

[Admiral Thrawn]

This question is rather simple...

 

You shouldn't touch anyone without permission. You need to be very friendly with someone to allow it to happen. You should be able to recognise this so-called "Chemistry" yourself.

 

Only when this "Chemistry" has been established can you move onto "Biology"...

 

Right. But you could creep someone out by asking permission for something like that. Again what is this 'Chemistry' stuff? Obviously the only solution to it is if she touches myself first without permission, then it may imply that it is safe to do the same to her, at least in the same manner. This doesn't happen all the time though, and the last time the woman was married. She touched me, but I never touched her, because I was now programmed to be afraid of touching anyone (especially if they are married), but she was more than welcome to touch me. Other than that, how do you know if there is chemistry or not? How do you know when someone is very friendly? Suppose the only way to know is to touch them and see how they react?

[Conspire]

Right. But you could creep someone out by asking permission for something like that. Again what is this 'Chemistry' stuff? Obviously the only solution to it is if she touches myself first without permission, then it may imply that it is safe to do the same to her, at least in the same manner. This doesn't happen all the time though, and the last time the woman was married. She touched me, but I never touched her, because I was now programmed to be afraid of touching anyone (especially if they are married), but she was more than welcome to touch me. Other than that, how do you know if there is chemistry or not? How do you know when someone is very friendly? Suppose the only way to know is to touch them and see how they react?

 

You should recognise this Chemistry. I'm only a teen and I recognise it, as do others. It's difficult to put into words. Chemistry usually refers to feeling which two people have for one another, you can gauge these through talking and getting to know the person.

 

As you say, the best idea is to wait for them to come to you, which I favor. I know many relationships that have started this way, and strong bonds have been formed by these couples.

 

Also, you should never touch or attempt to date anyone who is already married or in a relationship. It's both dirty and immoral, and the relationships formed from these are never very strong.

[JS17]

Holy crap, this is the creepiest thread I've seen. Maybe I'm missing something here. Are you trying to figure out how to touch people inappropriately where it is not consentual?

[SmoochieFace]

You should recognise this Chemistry. I'm only a teen and I recognise it, as do others. It's difficult to put into words. Chemistry usually refers to feeling which two people have for one another, you can gauge these through talking and getting to know the person.

 

Not everyone recognises *chemistry*. Some people have great difficulty in that area. I am one of them. Regardless of any *chemistry*, I wouldn't touch anyone unless they touch me first. That would, for me, be the best indicator that touching is *okay*... and even then I would have to want to touch her in the first place for it to happen.

 

To the OP: if you touch a woman without her permission you may experience some serious *touching* from her in the form of a bofetada or a boot in the nuts.

[Admiral Thrawn]

Not everyone recognises *chemistry*. Some people have great difficulty in that area. I am one of them. Regardless of any *chemistry*, I wouldn't touch anyone unless they touch me first. That would, for me, be the best indicator that touching is *okay*... and even then I would have to want to touch her in the first place for it to happen.

 

To the OP: if you touch a woman without her permission you may experience some serious *touching* from her in the form of a bofetada or a boot in the nuts.

 

Not if it is a co-worker or someone you know.

 

Within that category, statistics show there is a 1/10 chance, if a touch is unwelcome, that anything serious is going to come out of that, and usually, a girl will show some sort of immediate body posture sign that a touch is unwelcome, and not start enjoying it and then going hay-wire after. They will assertively say 'dont do that', or something to indicate that it is not welcome. That is assuming you know them well enough to trust them not to go hay-wire on you.

 

Of course, a shoulder 'touch' is less aggressive than touching her hair or giving her an outright back-rub. If her body language shows she does not want a shoulder touch (ergo does not like you or trust you), then chances are, more aggressive types of touches are out of the question.

 

On the other hand, other internet sites have suggested to touch hair in the context of a compliment - saying, you know you have really beautiful hair, and start playing with it. (of course assuming a modicum of chemistry) Or, you look stressed out today, looks like you need a backrub? I dont know, if you are not used to girls, and touching them, it may come across as creepy, but if you act like you are used to this, as though other girls have given positive feedback (ergo confidence) then it may come across as natural.

 

If you read my original post, I was not necessarily targeting people in the public on random. If you just start groping strangers, feeling their breasts or touching their butts outright, then sure, any type of reaction, whether it is a fight, her boyfriend beats you up, or a criminal charge (assuming you are pinned down and apprehended, or let your ID fall from your pockets when you run) is possible.

 

It is not enough just to touch someone, but for them to want to be touched and enjoy it. That they have a subconcious desire to be touched by you and you are filling it up. You are the one that is doing the favour by granting a hidden wish. If it was just about that, well, I could buy wigs, or play with mannequin's in department stores, which would have a similar psychological effect anyway.

[Admiral Thrawn]

Holy crap, this is the creepiest thread I've seen. Maybe I'm missing something here. Are you trying to figure out how to touch people inappropriately where it is not consentual?

 

No, only friends or co-workers, or people known in common, who may have a hidden wish to be touched by someone, or may like to be touched.

 

The problem is, this can not be ascertained properly by verbal discourse because it may come across as creepy and just kill the mood.

[Admiral Thrawn]

You should recognise this Chemistry. I'm only a teen and I recognise it, as do others. It's difficult to put into words. Chemistry usually refers to feeling which two people have for one another, you can gauge these through talking and getting to know the person.

 

As you say, the best idea is to wait for them to come to you, which I favor. I know many relationships that have started this way, and strong bonds have been formed by these couples.

 

Also, you should never touch or attempt to date anyone who is already married or in a relationship. It's both dirty and immoral, and the relationships formed from these are never very strong.

 

I only understand my own feelings, how do I know if she is not teasing me or is just friendly to everyone but doesn't mean anything? I dont think chemistry is black and white.

 

However, I will say this, it is cool to suggest to a girl, 'hey, I think we've got chemistry', and if she says 'yeah, I think we do', then there is probably chemistry before engaging in any serious touching. That's what the experts say to do before asking her number, or touching her hair and kissing her.

[Neptune]

In the workplace it is sure to be a problem. Just try slow dancing. That is about the most bang for the buck I can think of in the public realm.

 

A packed bus in Rome, Italy at rush hour has to be a close second though:D

[JS17]

No, only friends or co-workers, or people known in common, who may have a hidden wish to be touched by someone, or may like to be touched.

Either I'm not understanding still or this problem is out of my league. Are you trying to find out about flirty touching? Like touching someone's arm or back when you're interested in them?

[Admiral Thrawn]

Either I'm not understanding still or this problem is out of my league. Are you trying to find out about flirty touching? Like touching someone's arm or back when you're interested in them?

 

Well, we are talking about a wide range of touching, and its appropriate time and place, including and especially flirty touching.

 

Other than handshakes, I do not really touch girls in any way, shape or form, that I am interested in. This has taken its toll as I am now 29 --> 30 years old. One internet article suggests that a shoulder touch is the best initiating touch. If she 'opens' up to you more as a result of that touch, then that type of touch can be repeated again, and you've also learned that there is potential in that relationship. If she continues to progressively 'open up', then you can progress to more complicated forms of touching.

 

However, if she treats you like you have the 'coodies' off the bat, then you know you are going to move on fast, because it shows she does not trust you or like you. There is no point in spending much time with her. So, a touch can be a good guage of where you are going with someone.

[Admiral Thrawn]

In the workplace it is sure to be a problem. Just try slow dancing. That is about the most bang for the buck I can think of in the public realm.

 

A packed bus in Rome, Italy at rush hour has to be a close second though:D

 

I'm alien to the dancing scene, although I'm planning on taking Salsa dance lessons in the new year. It is a stationary partner type of dance, but dont have much knowledge on it. The other type of courses is Ballroom dancing, but I think they are attracting an older crowd.

[Gold Pile]

Holy crap, this is the creepiest thread I've seen. Maybe I'm missing something here. Are you trying to figure out how to touch people inappropriately where it is not consentual?

 

 

I responded to it with (some) humor, but yes it is creepy.

[kitkat826]

I'm alien to the dancing scene, although I'm planning on taking Salsa dance lessons in the new year. It is a stationary partner type of dance, but dont have much knowledge on it. The other type of courses is Ballroom dancing, but I think they are attracting an older crowd.

 

If you want legal physical contact and intimacy with strangers, learn a popular partner dance like salsa or merengue. Actually, start with merengue, its easier.

 

Or how about treating yourself to a massage?? Does bumping into a girl's ass on the bus really fill some type of urge?!?!

 

This is the first post I've read that has re-affirmed willingness to be violent in public places.

[Admiral Thrawn]

If you want legal physical contact and intimacy with strangers, learn a popular partner dance like salsa or merengue. Actually, start with merengue, its easier.

 

Or how about treating yourself to a massage?? Does bumping into a girl's ass on the bus really fill some type of urge?!?!

 

This is the first post I've read that has re-affirmed willingness to be violent in public places.

 

I've already enrolled in dance lessons. Seems like I've choose the right one.

Great - I choose Salsa over Ballroom.

 

I dont know about massages, I put them into the same category as escorts, or anything else in the adult enteraintment industry. May be a consideration only on a designated time, such as November, February 14th, or March 14th only. It is all to obvious that you could buy your own touch experiences and even more with a stranger. I was looking at a either a free or more natural venue.

 

The bus idea, as another poster mentioned, seems like an idea. But, the thing with me is I drive and do not use public transportation.

 

First post that has re-affirmed WHOSE willingness to be violent in public places? We are talking about natural hetrosexual horney urges here that a touch-deprived guy may be going through.

[erika2610]

I've already enrolled in dance lessons. Seems like I've choose the right one.

Great - I choose Salsa over Ballroom.

 

I dont know about massages, I put them into the same category as escorts, or anything else in the adult enteraintment industry. May be a consideration only on a designated time, such as November, February 14th, or March 14th only. It is all to obvious that you could buy your own touch experiences and even more with a stranger. I was looking at a either a free or more natural venue.

 

The bus idea, as another poster mentioned, seems like an idea. But, the thing with me is I drive and do not use public transportation.

 

First post that has re-affirmed WHOSE willingness to be violent in public places? We are talking about natural hetrosexual horney urges here that a touch-deprived guy may be going through.

 

It could be me, but I don't think normal people just go around asking how to go around touching people. I'm with the other 2 who said this's just creepy..

Ick.

[Admiral Thrawn]

It could be me, but I don't think normal people just go around asking how to go around touching people. I'm with the other 2 who said this's just creepy..

Ick.

 

Touching people is part of the healthy flirting interaction, the absence of which indicates a lack of trust or dislike. Body language accounts for 68 % of communication, and touch is part of body language.

 

As others have said, those that are not too shy to give girls backrubs, engage in flirtatious touching, embrase them or play with their hair, seem to be getting the girls.