A Beautiful Love Posted December 21, 2005 Share Posted December 21, 2005 I'm not sure if I can post this or not. I will be as vague as possible. Question: My H loves doggie style. When in this position, do most men imagine they are with another woman? I have heard before that some men like this position because it is easier to visualize other people. When I look back at H in the middle of the deed, his eyes are always closed. Any advice on this topic? Link to post Share on other sites
tanbark813 Posted December 21, 2005 Share Posted December 21, 2005 If his eyes are closed then he can imagine you as another woman in any position. Personally, I just think it feels good. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted December 21, 2005 Share Posted December 21, 2005 Don't assume that he's thinking of someone else! I'm sure he's just enjoying the position and feeling really good!!! Link to post Share on other sites
littlekitty Posted December 21, 2005 Share Posted December 21, 2005 Try posting in the Sexual Health forum, you'll probably get better responses! Link to post Share on other sites
Craig Posted December 21, 2005 Share Posted December 21, 2005 When in this position, do most men imagine they are with another woman? I have heard before that some men like this position because it is easier to visualize other people.I don't know about most men but the thought of imagining myself with another woman while in doggie style has never crossed my mind. Like Tanbark said, it just feels good. Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted December 21, 2005 Share Posted December 21, 2005 My guy says for him, its a mix of the position itself feeling good (the angle of how he's inside me) and the erotic nature of it. I tend to go wild during that and he says its a big turn on to see me like that. I'm not sure what to say about your husband - there's no telling what is behind those closed eyes. Does he close his eyes all the time during sex and that's just a normal sort of thing for him? Have you talked to him about it? If you decide to, keep it as a matter of curiosity and not one of jealousy, hurt or confrontation - something like "I'm just curious, but what do you like best about that position?" and go from there. Ask what other positions he likes and what you two can do to make it hotter for you both. Avoid anything like "do you think of other women" - simply talk normally as if you are curious and not suspicious about the closed eyes thing. You'll be more likely to get more information that way, and it could be a very simple matter of it simply feeling best to him that way and his eyes are closed because thats just what he does. Link to post Share on other sites
JadeStar Posted December 21, 2005 Share Posted December 21, 2005 IMO its just another sex position. One in which I love I might add. I highly doubt that particular position has a thing to do with men thinking about other women. Anyone could think of another, no matter what position they are in. Jade Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted December 21, 2005 Share Posted December 21, 2005 My H loves doggie style. yes, him along with most men... When in this position, do most men imagine they are with another woman? I have heard before that some men like this position because it is easier to visualize other people. When I look back at H in the middle of the deed, his eyes are always closed. you'll never know what someone is thinking about whether they have their eyes open or closed or whichever postion they are f***ing you in. Link to post Share on other sites
slubberdegullion Posted December 21, 2005 Share Posted December 21, 2005 I never really considered the possibility of fantasizing that I'm with someone else in that position. It's just a comfortable and very pleasurable way of making love. With my hands on her waist, caressing her backside, stroking her back... uh... 'scuse me for a few minutes Link to post Share on other sites
usedanabused Posted December 21, 2005 Share Posted December 21, 2005 I personally just think it feels good. I know most women I have been with really like it as well . I never think of anyone else just who I am with . Link to post Share on other sites
lilmoma1973 Posted December 21, 2005 Share Posted December 21, 2005 Personally i don't care for the doggie style he has toq much control and that position is really uncomfortable for me !! I love being on top i have all the control !!! Link to post Share on other sites
seachange Posted December 21, 2005 Share Posted December 21, 2005 Personally (as a woman), I think it's highly erotic, feels a little extra dirty, I like the feel of his hands on my a$$...basically it's a big turn-on for me, and apparently it shows. I like the idea of my man wanting me any way he can have me. Link to post Share on other sites
Freyja Posted December 21, 2005 Share Posted December 21, 2005 Personally I think alot of guys like this position cause it seems rather animalistic and erotic. Me and my fiance love it, me being a submissive girl, I like it when hes holding onto my ass and has full control and I like feeling dominated! Also my fiance says he feels like he can go in deeper with that position and I guess its good visually for the guy too. To be honest, I know hes with me, he enjoys doing it with me and is having a good time, so I wouldn't really worry about what's going through hes head during that moment! Link to post Share on other sites
SILLYRABBIT Posted December 21, 2005 Share Posted December 21, 2005 I always thought doggie style meant that you sit by the side of the bed and beg... All kidding aside, I don't imagine other women and do like that position a lot. For me, it feels more comfortable than missionary and has a different sensation(tighter). Plus I have more opportunity to touch her with my hands. Silly Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted December 22, 2005 Share Posted December 22, 2005 I talked to my husband tonight about doggiestyle and asked him what he liked most about it. Here is what he said to me. (not exact quote word for word...) "It's very animalistic, turns me on seeing you from behind, and hearing you breath really loud, I can grab on, use my hands and ofcourse less effort to pump which saves me energy." There, that is pretty honest from a guy. Link to post Share on other sites
TUDOR Posted December 22, 2005 Share Posted December 22, 2005 I think most posts have hit on it pretty good. The position itself memics nature, almost all animals f*** in this position so it does feel a little more raw and natural. And yes it does feel good, your legs don't have to be spread like other positions and therefor the more closed they are the tighter you feel. The other thing is the feeling of smacking against that @ss. The sound of it alone is a turn on. Then there is the sensation of the balls slapping back and forth and us knowing it is slapping against your clit giving you even more sensation than just the penetration. So yes it feels good and visually pleasing. But no it has nothing to do with visualizing another woman but yes for some it could, I think Alpha answered this best. I would be willing to bet most guys if they are even going to close there eyes don't do in the doggie style position because they would miss out on the awesome view. In that position a guy gets to watch his manhood dissappear in and out of you which no matter how many times you see it is an awesome sight. Not all positions offer the same great view of this as doggie style. And lastly it just adds some variety, you on top, me on top gets old but doggie style is usually the 3rd acceptable position for most couples even for the sexual modest ones. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted December 22, 2005 Share Posted December 22, 2005 In that position a guy gets to watch his manhood dissappear in and out of you which no matter how many times you see it is an awesome sight. Wow TUDOR, you sound so passionate about it. That's cool. (Well, hot!) Link to post Share on other sites
chokra Posted December 26, 2005 Share Posted December 26, 2005 I always thought doggie style meant that you sit by the side of the bed and beg... Just so we're on the same page...this is doggy! http://www.betterloverseminar.com/positions/sitting_kneeling/doggy.php Link to post Share on other sites
Tangerina Posted December 26, 2005 Share Posted December 26, 2005 My boy and I love it because it feels SO GOOD for both of us and he is dominant and I am submissive (oh geez, what a match made in heaven!) and it can be a really comanding position for him and great for spanking and biting my shoulders.... it can also just be raw and sweet and close, it is very primal.... Link to post Share on other sites
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