grace2006 Posted February 1, 2006 Share Posted February 1, 2006 Using force does not always get her back. Force should be used as last resort and there will not be love. Even if you believe in the Stockholm syndrome, it still might not work. Even with Sun Tzu, the decision to use war (force) should not be made lightly. I'm not going to be the one forcing her to do anything. She has to be the one to come to me begging. Link to post Share on other sites
chocolate_boy Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 I"m not going to apologize for the fact that my religion dictates that I offer up a blood sacrifice from my own skin for my transgressions. It's the only way for me to feel better and relieve my guilt. That way I can keep sinning as long as I pay for it through shedding my own blood! I have committed an unpardonable sin that not even the blood of Jesus can forgive. Grace you are an extremely confused person, in one post you claim you are "not in the slightest bit religious" then you say this. What religion are you exactly? You sound to me like you may have some mild split personality disorder, you seem to contradict yourself an awful lot on these forums. You ask for help yet when people try and advise you that you seriously do desperately need some good therapy or counselling you either completely ignore it or say you may get some parish/church therapy... have you taken any steps yet? You will not cure or feel better until you do. Forget the ex, it's last years news, you weren't the dumper, she dumped you and did as lots of ex's do, changed her mind temporarily, but for her to dump you in the first place showed she wasn't that into you. She won't be back, she's moved on. Sorry if this sounds harsh, but nothing anyone says is getting through to you. You're talking about wanting to slice your limbs off cos "god tells you to", while at the same time saying you're not religious at all. Then you threaten JDub's life for trying to help you, and put others on ignore and seem to think there is some big consipiracy on this site and everyone is out to get you and making plans (?!). You seem to thrive on wanting to punish your ex girlfriend and see her beg and degrade herself.... dude, she's gone, she may be hooked up with a new guy, but it's been a few months now, she's not coming back. If you want her back (as you seem rather obsessed with her) you need to make the steps, but it sounds to me like you have much bigger issues that NEED DEALING WITH NOW before you can even consider being in a healthy enough state of mind for a relationship. Hate me, put me on ignore, threaten to kill me and call me a consipiracist if you like, but I'm speaking truth, and I think everyone on the site would agree with me. You're not well, you have mental health issues, you need some help. I hope you feel better soon, but you need to take the steps to help yourself now. Good luck Link to post Share on other sites
grace2006 Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 I'm not about to go to some brainwashing therapist and pay him 50 bucks an hour. I never wanted the ex back I just wanted to get even Her wanting to try again was my opportunity to dump her back & I did. It's been nearly 2 months of NC. I don't care if anyone is out to get me. I will not cooperate and go anywhere with anybody! I'm getting scared of alot of women now. I am like john rambo on this forum like in the movie "first blood". Everyone on this forum is the whole town sheriff that goes after rambo. Link to post Share on other sites
grace2006 Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 I don't have to love anybody in order to have a relationship. I can quietly hate them and go through the motions of doing nice things. Link to post Share on other sites
grace2006 Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 I can pretty much bet money that anyone claiming to speak the truth is more than likely not speaking the truth. The ones who really do speak the truth don't brag about it like chocolate boy did. He thinks i'm obsessed with my ex? Well what about her? She showed up at my door awhile back and you don't call that obsession? You call that moving on? If she moved on then why the hell did she show up at my door, call me like several times after I dumped her in december? I dumped her 1 month after she wanted to reconcile. She called me this morning leaving a message saying to call her back when I get a chance. Should I respond? If so how long should I wait? She sounded a bit anxious in her tone of voice. I just want a friendship with her. Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 Get some help........ you are not rational at all. Quite honestly you are acting scarey at best. You are all over the board, and you need to get some help. You can get free help. a4a Link to post Share on other sites
grace2006 Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 I can survive without any professional help. I still have my health & a job that pays me enough to put food in my mouth. I have all the physical necessities of life under control. So don't you dare try to judge me or question me about my educational background! Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 So don't you dare try to judge me or question me about my educational background! WTF? where did you get this from? a4a Link to post Share on other sites
grace2006 Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 WTF? where did you get this from? a4a I know what is coming. You think you have my educational background and occupational status all figured out just from reading my posts. Well I must tell you that you have preconceived ideas. Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 I know what is coming. You think you have my educational background and occupational status all figured out just from reading my posts. Well I must tell you that you have preconceived ideas. No I think you are showing clinical signs of paranoia........ get some help. Link to post Share on other sites
grace2006 Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 No I think you are showing clinical signs of paranoia........ get some help. That still does not tell you about my educational background and occupation status! So don't assume I'm unemployed! Link to post Share on other sites
grace2006 Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 No I think you are showing clinical signs of paranoia........ get some help. If you insist I'll e-mail you a copy of my IRS records for proof of how much weight I pull in society! Link to post Share on other sites
grace2006 Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 And you know we are coming to that age...... There's an organization in the world now called the "united counsel of churches" or "the world counsel of churches" they are niether hot nor cold. They don't care about Christ one way or the other. Everything He ever did they try to ignore it... they try to deny it. There's an organization now called the counsel of 200 well use to be 200 now they're down to 70 because most of them have dropped out. They call theirselves the counsel of 70. Couple of years ago they got together and decided that when Christ died on the corss... they said that He really didn't die but that He just swooned or passed out on the cross He didn't really die. Mark it down! Jesus is returning to this planet very soon! All these forums will burn up at the brightness of His coming. It's a shame that anyone buys what this organization believes! Link to post Share on other sites
chocolate_boy Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 Don't call her or respond while you are in this mental state. Seek counselling or a doctor, you URGENTLY NEED it, before you do yourself some harm or do something you will regret. At the moment you are in denial. Read back through your posts, they are not the words of an emotionally stable person. Whether it was your ex and the situation that has made you like this I don't know, but right now you are mentally ill... that's not an insult, you are sick and need to get better, and you cannot do it alone, believe me. We are not all going to burn in hell for trying to help you, trust me we're not scheming behind your back to get you in anyway shape or form, we're all different people who are strangers who only speak through here, we have our own lives, we do not spend time conspiring to get you. I was not bragging and the above poster was making no implications about your education or status, you are just a regular guy who is going through a tough time, but don't be embarrassed to seek help, lots of people need it throughout life, and when you are better you can come on here and we'll all be buddies, and maybe you can start a new meaningful and healthy relationship with someone, be that your ex or someone new, but right now you are not mentally healthy enough for it. We all wish you luck, but if you are going to post here for advice, please have the decency to follow it, or to cease posting if you are just going to ignore/insult anyone that offers help. If you're just looking for a place where people will say what you want to hear, you're on the wrong site. Link to post Share on other sites
crazy_grl Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 I'm not going to apologize for the fact that my religion dictates that I offer up a blood sacrifice from my own skin for my transgressions. It's the only way for me to feel better and relieve my guilt. That way I can keep sinning as long as I pay for it through shedding my own blood! I have committed an unpardonable sin that not even the blood of Jesus can forgive. What religion are you?? I ask because I've never heard of any religion that still requires blood sacrifice after recognizing the sacrifice of Jesus in the New Testament. If you wanted your ex to appologize, you should have told her that before you took her back the first time. She should have told her how much she hurt you instead of playing this game. Taking her back and then dumping her to be vindictive was just wrong and there's very little reason she should appologize now. You're getting angry at her and hating her because she hasn't appologized when you 1. haven't given her the chance because you're actively avoiding her and 2. were the one who dumped her this time. Also, it seems completely contradictory that you want her to grovel to you and beg forgiveness but then get angry at her for showing up at your door (which would seem to indicate that she's throwing herself at you). I don't think I've read any threads of yours before this one, and after reading your first two posts, I was a bit scared for you. And if I knew you in person, I'd probably be scared of you. That's not meant as an attack, just a blunt statement. Please go see a counselor, because, as others have said, you really don't seem to be handling this well. Link to post Share on other sites
chocolate_boy Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 What religion are you?? I ask because I've never heard of any religion that still requires blood sacrifice after recognizing the sacrifice of Jesus in the New Testament. On page one of this thread: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showpost.php?p=683923&postcount=10 Grace claims he is "not religious at all", so who knows... you need help bruv. Link to post Share on other sites
jerbear Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 I'm not going to be the one forcing her to do anything. She has to be the one to come to me begging. Since you want her to come back begging. she visits you, you didn't answer the door. She calls you, you didn't return the call. So what is it? I can survive without any professional help. I still have my health & a job that pays me enough to put food in my mouth. I have all the physical necessities of life under control. So don't you dare try to judge me or question me about my educational background! You may want to utilize the Worklife Balance programs your employer may offer. There maybe a program that deals with traumatic events. Link to post Share on other sites
datboispiggs Posted February 12, 2006 Share Posted February 12, 2006 I thought I was ****ed in the head over a woman. This dude seriously needs help. More than me. Paying her back. For what purpose? Are we 11. Suzy stole my lunch ticket so I'm gonna make Suzy be the last person in line everyday. Get over it SON. And give the IRS a call nobody gives a **** about how much "weight" you pull. What do you got to offer any chick? All you're gonna get is gold diggers, who act like you're so special. Good luck in life bud. Mo Money Mo Problems. Peaaaaace out fag. Knock. Link to post Share on other sites
chocolate_boy Posted February 13, 2006 Share Posted February 13, 2006 It's been a couple of weeks since Grace posted, I hope he's taken our advice and is seeking some good therapy and on the road to recovery. Yeah he has been messed up by all this, but I think he has other issues, and hopefully he has now seen sense and is getting better. In my toughts. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted February 13, 2006 Share Posted February 13, 2006 its cuz he is posting under a few new names if you haven't already noticed. Link to post Share on other sites
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