big_girls_rock Posted December 24, 2005 Share Posted December 24, 2005 How much is too much? I moved about 4 months ago to a new area and not long after getting a new job I started a social life and now Im meeting new guys, at work, parties and so on and I love all the attention and flirting but how far should all this go with mulitiple guys before something gets out of hand. For example- I have a good friend Brian at my job who likes me but I don't feel the same way towards him. I do watch what I say and do around him so I won't send him mixed signals and I totally keep it on a friendly level- Not to mention all the other guys I talk too but I tend to natuarally flirt with them because I am attracted to them. Can a person flirt so much and cause someone else to get jealous though there is no relationship between the two? I like this other guy at my job but I don't want to start dating quite yet. My issue is- Brian seems to be nearby a lot and if he saw me flirting with other guys and he gets offended I wouldn't really know what to say especially since I don't have feelings for him. I know I should probably let him know what I feel but Im afraid it will hurt his feelings and our budding friendship. I told him before we really even started speaking that I wasn't looking for a relationship. What should I do? I don't want to settle down and I really find flirting innocently to be really fun- Im just not ready to commit to one person right now or dating. Link to post Share on other sites
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