kjo314 Posted December 25, 2005 Share Posted December 25, 2005 My ex broke up with me 3 weeks ago. After some self reflection I have realized I was one of those clingy types that was always nervous because my self-esteem was so low I always thought she would find someone better. I now know this. She is only in the state till January 6th. I have figured out what is wrong. We have been no contact for a week. Last week she called me and told me she still loves me and got upset over the phone ans said that there is still hope for us. I think I pushed her too much.. when she broke up with me she cited "fundamental differences" as a problem. Having thought about this I have realized she meant that she wants to do things by herself. She doesn't want everything bought for her and everything taken care for her. I have really messed up becuase I have done this for her. I can't lose this girl. It seems like she still has feelings for me. What should I do. I thought about writing her a letter letting her know all these things before she goes back down to Florida. What do you guys think. She cited personality differences as well when we broke up... aka. emotional intimacy and respect of space..... I figuredthese both resulted from the fact that i always got nervous about her going out and stuff like that because of my low- self-esteem. If she said she loved me then obviously she did. I DIDN'T SEE THIS TILL NOW and I hope it isn't too late. Someone please help me. Link to post Share on other sites
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