scaredinlove Posted December 26, 2005 Share Posted December 26, 2005 Hi folks I need help.How do you know you fell out of love and what you do? I can't stand my husband, cannot look at him, cannot have sex with him.I have three kids and I am staying for the family.Over the 14 years we being togheter my H never satisfied in any way.He can't keep a job and never paid much atention too me.Now he is trying very hard to make me happy but intead of feeling happy I fell annoyed, keep thinking why don't he just leave.I shared my feelings with him, he dosen't believe I really don't love him. I feel trapped in a marriage that never made me happy and never will.What you do? Just walk out? For some reason I cannot find the strengh to walk out. What is it than. Please someone help me.... Link to post Share on other sites
BUTAFLY Posted December 26, 2005 Share Posted December 26, 2005 I could never understand why parents "stay together for the kids." This is not healthy. Your children need happy healthy relationships to model themselves after. I grew up in a houshold where my parents didn't get alone and constantly beraided oneanother eventhough they tried to hide it from my siblings we could tell their was tention. If they would have seperated it would have been way more healthy for all of us. You deserve to be happy. Is it a situation that you cant afford to leave him? Do you work are you able to support yourself and the children? this are real questions you should ask yourself...feeling trapped should not be an option. Link to post Share on other sites
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