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My b/f's cheating on me :(


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I hav been going out with my bf for just about a month now. We decided it would be a secret because the girl he used to like goes to our shurch(i met im at church). I've kissed him and everything. I really he was right for me because even today, he brushed against my arm without anyone knowing and stuff.

 

Neway, I went to a christmas party yesterday and it was at the girl-he-used-to-like's house. I saw him going upto her room and talking (I think) (Nothing wierd cuz we're only 14) and I swear they were kissing and stuff up there. :(

 

By the way, he is VERY popular and buff lol and loads of gals like him ALOT. So after the party, I went around my mates house (she's 2yrs older than me) to just hang around and stuff with some of my bfs m8s were hanging aswell. I all thought my mate liked my bf so we started asking her questions on it but it turned out that he had called her everyday and said like "Oh, I like this girl who is 2yrs older than me and i really dont know wat to do and etc.." So it turns out that he was trying to get me mate aswell!!!!!

 

I really don't know what to do cuz he's like my first PROPER boyfriend and I luv him sooooo much but i dont know if he loves me back :(

I thought about dumping him and so what should i say???

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Darling don't be upset about this jerk who by the sounds of it is not worth it. I remember being 14 and in love too and it was sweet. Trust me, there are plenty of better people out there and when you are 14 you are meant to have a million relationships a week not one you really shouldnt waste all your time on. Just try to be friends with him, he could be a better friend than boyfriend who also comes with hot friends :) and just think that a year from now you won't even be thinking of him in that way.

 

Have fun and don't let any guy get you down no matter how great he thinks he is!

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Unfortunately, 14-year-old boys don't know a lot about girls.

 

They tend to be self-centered (even the really nice guys!) and will change their minds at the drop of a hat.

 

It really is too young of an age to get serious about anyone. I suggest yes, you tell him the 'secret going out' deal is over. You want to be free to hang with your friends and date other people.

 

Any guy who wants to keep you a 'secret' is immature, anyway.

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Yeah hun, you're still very young. You're still a kid. Stay single and enjoy your youth before it's gone. Worry about dating seriously later on. You have tons of time! This is the time to develop as a person individually and just have fun!

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