I think a girl likes me, but i dunno what to do!

[mantictony]

Ok, im a shy guy (no surprise). There's this girl I have a big crush on, so I asked one of my friends to tell her. She just responded, "not interested". Well, like a week or 2 later. Im in the library and she's far off. And she gives these weird signs like she walks right by me (several passes). She blushes a little. And while im staring at her, she gives a little smile.

 

And when we pass in the hall (I kinda try to look down), she gives a little smile.

-However, I know she's told ALL her friends and such, and i dunno if she's doing this to tease or if she is genuinely interested.

 

I want to say something to her, but I kinda choke up and can only force out a wave, and I dont know what to talk about. Can anybody tell me if she likes me? Or, maybe what I should say when I approach her? [Note: I have never said anything to her before].

 

-I should elaborate further. During the "library" incident, It seemed (to me) that she had an excuse to look for a book. [something I do]. I could definitely tell she was looking at me, [because I was looking at her. ;-) ]. When she made the passes, she deliberately made it a point to pass. In fact, she even stopped in front of me [with her back turned] to talk with one of her friends. (Of course I was too shy to say anything).

-Additionally, I seem to be making more coincidental “run ins” with her (not my design).

 

I am convinced, in my heart, that she is not interested. But I don’t understand why she keeps “teasing” like this. Could there also be a possibility that she wasn’t being truthful with the friend, and just said that to not expose herself?

[amerikajin]

Well, if what you say is true, she could be sending you the signals - it seems that way at least.

 

But on the other hand, she did tell her friend that she wasn't interested. Maybe she's just seeing how you'll react. Sometimes women do tease, especially when they already know they've got you.

 

If you're still in doubt, then the only way to end your torment is to get up the courage to ask her out. If she says 'no', then you know where you stand.

[Lucasarts]

she's being a huge tease, just ignore it and move on man

 

she's just tryin to get a rise outta you and its working

 

when girls play games it sucks, just ignore her and her childish behavior

[Mary3]

I would NOT ask her out.

 

She is teasing you big time.

 

Lets put it this way. If a guy liked me and I did not like him I would go out of my way to avoid that person once I made it clear I was not interested.

 

She is teasing you to get a reaction then probrobly laughing with her friends.

 

Whenever she is around do NOT look at her and leave the area. EVERY time . ALL the time. Send her the message you are no longer interested either.

[sparticuss]

She may well have told the girlfirend "not interested " in order to quash any malacious gissop.

But if she was interested after all then she should have promptly told you. In plain English.

 

 

Or she may be behaving in the present manner becasue she's a spiteful %^&* just teasing you.

 

And you have to get used to talking to a lot more females in order to lose the shyness. Paticularily the ones you don't have any sort of crush on. Single, married, just good company. Ya gott get used to yakking with em.