justagirliegirl Posted December 26, 2005 Share Posted December 26, 2005 I read these posts from people spending years in relationships with people who won't marry them. How do you prevent that from happening? Why do guys do that? Just want to date someone indefinitely. How can you tell you are just being strung along? I think I have hit a road block with my man. He tells me the only thing bothering him about our relationship is our age difference. I am quite a few years older. He says he hasn't decided yet. I said that is the only thing. He said yes everything else is great. How long should I wait for him to decide before hanging it up and moving on? We have been together about 2 years now. I hate bringing up marriage as I think sometimes it makes guys freak. We had just a bit of marriage talk maybe 6 months ago and he said if he was going to marry someone it would be me but he wasn't quite ready yet. Heck he is 25 so I understand. I plan to talk to him about this before I leave back to my country in the Spring. What should I say to find out where he is at without scaring him off? I am pretty burnt on on the ldr thing too. I can last but it just gets harder as I just want to be with him. Link to post Share on other sites
Shana Posted December 27, 2005 Share Posted December 27, 2005 Do you have to move back ?? It may be hard for him to make that committment being his age, although 25 is not that young anymore, and also the face that you two are not together... ldr are tough. But makes you feel any better, I am in a 2 yr. Relationship, we live together and we have not once spoke about marriage.. My case feels like the cow and the milk. At least your discussing it. Good Luck! Link to post Share on other sites
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