Citizen Erased Posted December 28, 2005 Share Posted December 28, 2005 Okay I'm only 18 but I know by now that love is more than just a feeling, but the thing's you do for one another. Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a bit and to everyone looking, we seem to be perfectly happy, minus the occasional fight (but which relationship doesnt contain fights?). We are now committing ourselves to moving in together by March next year. We were looking at houses and stuff one day but then we had this massive fight a week later, for which I can take much of the blame as I got annoyed at him for no reason after a really hard day at work. I didn't speak to him all night and then most of the next day, being the bitch I am sometimes after a hard day at work. When we finally confronted each other, he then told me he didn't know how he felt about me anymore. We decided to work things out and really worked through issues we had had in the past. He got with some chick at a party early in our relationship, a childish spin the bottle thing which still hurt me alot. He now tells me he loves me and perhaps the pressure of our jobs is getting to us now. Everything is just getting on top of me and none of my friends really understand. I'm hurt about him saying he doesnt know how he feels and then saying he does again, of course I'm going to have trust issues now. HELP!! Link to post Share on other sites
Nicholas Posted December 28, 2005 Share Posted December 28, 2005 Why not continue to live apart and see how things progress? If you're having issues, even minor ones, they're not going to get any better by the increased closeness and self-sacrifice. Link to post Share on other sites
Mz. Pixie Posted December 28, 2005 Share Posted December 28, 2005 Is that a pentagram on your avatar?? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Citizen Erased Posted December 28, 2005 Author Share Posted December 28, 2005 Nicholas: yeah thats probably best thanks for the advice. Mz Pixie: lol no its a heartagram, the symbol of my favourite band HIM. They've taken a pentagram and put a heart in the middle. Cheesy, but its still cute Link to post Share on other sites
Mz. Pixie Posted December 29, 2005 Share Posted December 29, 2005 Well, I'm glad it's not a pentagram. I didn't notice the heart until you said it! That's funny! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Citizen Erased Posted December 29, 2005 Author Share Posted December 29, 2005 It's cool im not crazy or weird I'd break my grandmothers heart if it was a Pentagram Link to post Share on other sites
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