Ladies and Gentlemen

[Man]

It seems that every aspect of my life is going well,except for one thing: relationship

 

I have done well in my studies,experienced different cultures,got a decent job.i've always achieve my goals cos i think i'm quite capable at that.I see every day of my life a new hope and challenge and is enjoying every moment of it.

 

However,when comes to relationship,it's just a pure sad story.I've attended a all boy school since P1 to when I finish High school.In my Uni years,the structure of my course will allow me to know a lot of people but has never got the chance of knowing a particualr group well.it's like after each semester,u'll have to say bye to people and make a new friends next one.In my work now,i need to travel quite frequently and there is no way to develop meaningful friendship and plus the fact that I work in the male-dominant IT field,it's even harder to know more girls

 

most of people said that I should have no reason of not having a girl,but even with the ones that I've met,it doesn't seem that I've a feeling for her.I dunno whether if i'm too picky or just hasn't met the right one.For the rare few ones that I've a feeling on,it's either that they're attached to somebody or I'm certain that these people have no feeling towards me.

 

Did anyone have similar feelings like the above before but is now in a succesful relationship?I really needed your help to remedy myself.I don't want to stay single for the rest of my life

[Tony T]

This all takes time. Stop worrying. One day, when you least expect it, you will meet the perfect lady for you. Just be open to that.

 

But to the greatest extend possible, get yourself out where you can meet ladies. And ask your friends to introduce you to eligible lady friends they have.

 

If you make some nice female friends, they can be an excellent source of meeting new ladies.

 

But have patience. Be happy with yourself and someone will come into your life.

[midori]

I know exactly how you feel. I'm also trying to find ways to meet people. The above is good advice. If you're looking for new opportunities to meet people, why not try some volunteer work? There are lots of places you can volunteer at and if you choose something that involves things you believe in and/or are interested in then you'll have a better chance of meeting people that you have a lot in common with. Volunteering can be done at museums or art centers as well as at homeless shelters or soup kitchen. There's also tutoring -- for kids but also for adult literacy. The options are endless. I'll bet your computer skills would be very welcome in any number of places.

 

Whatever you do to get out there, meeting new people whether male or female will expand your social network and increase your chances of meeting someone you'd like to date. Believe me, you're not alone in this. I think that most people go through this at some point in their lives and at any given time a considerable portion of the population is in the same place that you are (and I am) right now. It'll get better (it's GOT to get better ...). Really, it will.