trafficguy2000 Posted July 30, 2001 Share Posted July 30, 2001 Heres the deal. I have been seeing a girl for the last seven months. We were friends at first but I quickly relized that i had fallen in love with her. So we continue hanging out but I told her that I liked her. She said she liked me too. A couple of months later we went to Jamaica together. That went well however we had only kissed or held hands at that point. We take the trip and she spurns my advances saying she is not ready for that yet. We come back (this was in May) and continue to see each other every week-end. Durning all this time I did all the so called right things to do: bringing flowers once in a while, leaving notes and getting little gifts when she would call and tell me she was having a bad day (NOT ALL THE TIME HOWEVER). So last week-end a friend has a party and we agree to go together. Durning the party we talked to different people and she has this big dude start talking to her. I didnt go over there since i didnt think any big deal. Well an HOUR later I have to go over and ask if shes ready to go since things were winding down. We go back to her place and decide to listen to the radio and this big dude calls at 2 am. No big deal I thought at first- then he calls back on the answering machine and asks "are ya still with your boyfriend?" So then I got mad and told her it was wrong to give this guy her number. She says its only to talk about a possible job.So I say whatever and then try to kiss her she then says she has the old headache and goes into her room leaving me sitting there like a chump. I leave and left her an email stating that i could not see her any more because it isnt worth the emotional roller coaster I've been on. She then replies by yelling (all caps) that i am arrogant and insensitive and that i deserve to be alone. What did i do wrong? Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted July 31, 2001 Share Posted July 31, 2001 She is a worthless piece of lying, deceitful, rotten, maggot-ridden vermin and isn't worth her feet standing anywhere on the planet. I am so happy you did what you did. Yeah, right. The guy is calling her about a job at 2 a.m. and asking if you've left yet. She ignored you for an hour at the party while she talked to another guy. I know scuzz like this and they are totally worthless. Where did you find her? You should not have sent her an email. She didn't deserve it. You simply should have never, ever contacted her until long after the end of the world. The next time you're at a party with a lady and she spends more than 15 or 20 minutes talking to some stud, go outside, get into your car and leave...write the chick off forever. Let her take a cab home...or let her go home with her new friend. You did the right thing, my man. I am so proud of you. If I knew your address, I would send you a certificate of honor. You have arrived!!! Link to post Share on other sites
trafficguy2000 Posted July 31, 2001 Share Posted July 31, 2001 Thanks for the heads up bro. I didn't think that i did anything wrong to begin with. I just wasn't sure. Let me tell ya you find all kinds of grubbin chicks here in the ATL. It still hurts though since I did waste 7 months on this dead end. But oh well theres always next Saturday! She is a worthless piece of lying, deceitful, rotten, maggot-ridden vermin and isn't worth her feet standing anywhere on the planet. I am so happy you did what you did. Yeah, right. The guy is calling her about a job at 2 a.m. and asking if you've left yet. She ignored you for an hour at the party while she talked to another guy. I know scuzz like this and they are totally worthless. Where did you find her? You should not have sent her an email. She didn't deserve it. You simply should have never, ever contacted her until long after the end of the world. The next time you're at a party with a lady and she spends more than 15 or 20 minutes talking to some stud, go outside, get into your car and leave...write the chick off forever. Let her take a cab home...or let her go home with her new friend. You did the right thing, my man. I am so proud of you. If I knew your address, I would send you a certificate of honor. You have arrived!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted July 31, 2001 Share Posted July 31, 2001 She used you for seven months and you didn't even realize it. You may have been in love with her but if you will review the last seven months, she certainly didn't show you that in return. She is a cold bxtch and used you for everything, including that trip, she could get out of you. You were just her reserve until she found someone else. They just don't come worse. I know you were in love and I'm really sorry this happened to you. I hope you learn to pay attention. No matter how much you love somebody, if they don't treat you right, walk away...no RUN!!! Link to post Share on other sites
trafficguy2000 Posted July 31, 2001 Share Posted July 31, 2001 Thanks and Im passing this site along to my friends this place really helps when you can put your situation out there for others! She used you for seven months and you didn't even realize it. You may have been in love with her but if you will review the last seven months, she certainly didn't show you that in return. She is a cold bxtch and used you for everything, including that trip, she could get out of you. You were just her reserve until she found someone else. They just don't come worse. I know you were in love and I'm really sorry this happened to you. I hope you learn to pay attention. No matter how much you love somebody, if they don't treat you right, walk away...no RUN!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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