Learning a foreign language to impress foreign girls....

[Nicholas]

Admiral, people are being rude to you because you're being rude and obnoxious back. Whether intentional or not, there's obviously something about the way you deal with people that is irritating and abrasive. I don't think learning French will hide that.

[Admiral Thrawn]

Admiral, people are being rude to you because you're being rude and obnoxious back. Whether intentional or not, there's obviously something about the way you deal with people that is irritating and abrasive. I don't think learning French will hide that.

 

No I dont think so. Perhaps you should review this thread yourself. There are only a couple of people or three people who have made a big stink on this thread. Why? Because they lost in an arguement that occurred on the Religious section of the board, and I said I was going to return back in a week because I though the discussion there was going out of hand. So, they come to this thread to make trouble like a bunch of crying baby sore losers. Their friends joined into the circus.

 

They picked a fight on this thread.

 

Those who honestly contributed to this thread either agreed with what I said, or ultimately agreed with me, when they reviewed this thread, people like Kate123, because although she initially disagreed, she still was not ignorant, and reviewed the thread.

[Nicholas]

I reviewed the thread, and there's little you can do to convince me that I'm part of some grand conspiracy against you.

 

You don't even have to review the thread. Whether you can see it or not, people who are used to socially appropriate discourse can see that your posts go against the grain.

 

If you're here for advice, start taking some. If you're here for self-validation, maybe do it in PM's with the select group of people who aren't tired of you yet.

[Outcast]

Attitude is everything. If you respond to everything in life with the same hostility, arrogance, and defensiveness then there's no point in travelling the world or learning foreign languages because the attitude issues will bedevil all your other endeavours.

[Admiral Thrawn]

Well, I've had just about enough of this.

 

I would like everyone who is considering to use a foreign language to impress girls to look at a post from "Lucasarts" on page 2, and learn something.

 

It works. Do the best you can, because they will love to help you out and you will also be scoring points.

 

Lucasarts tried this, and was successful in getting 'somewhere' with the ladies.

 

Nobody here so far has claimed to have tried this, in particularly the critics, to say it has failed for them.

 

Therefore, those who did actually tried this have nothing to report other than success. This thread is hereby concluded its purpose, unless someone would like to say they have tried this and what has happened.

[sparticuss]

 

He is listing his idea together will all the creepy stuff that other people do in order to deceive women. As he does not set apart the objective of his idea from the other ones, this does have to make people believe that he is out to deceive women as well.

 

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On the contary Loony, he is not deceving anybody. He is being honest enough to acknowledge that there are an awful lot of single women out there who are so shallow that they need to be decived befoe they will even acknowledge his presence.

Which is why I told him that girls that need to be impressed aint worth impressing. Unfortunately thats an awful lot of single women. Which is why they are single of course.

I have a name for girls who simply take guys as they find them. I call them Mrs.

 

Thats what this whole "impressing them' is about. And don't these girls get shirty when they find honest guys who don't make jackassses of themselves trying to impress them.

[sparticuss]

I will make it short and not work through this whole nonsense post. I don't care if your intentions are more pure than holy water, you come across as a slimebag, and I think most women will agree with me in this point. Do I really care that you get upset and tell me that I'm wrong about you? Not really, you seem to be a very unpleasant person and if you want to have a girlfriend one day you might reconsider working on yourself. I really don't think you need more criticism or punishment from me, because you are your worst enemy when it comes to meeting anybody.

 

Actually Loony I think that most women (most of the ones I'm friends with are happpily married) would agree that your mind is overdue for a bath.

 

As far as decipt is concerned every silicone breast, padded bra, and patch of make up is still decipt. Think about it.

[loony]

I've noticed that many guys who complain that women are so shallow obviously have incredibly high standards for their future girlfriend. They seem to believe they deserve the most attractive women without ever questioning once what they themselves have to offer. They never wonder why the woman should take them and not someone else. As if they are the only guys who ever approach her. She has to accept you, because you think you are worthy of her? What a megalomaniac egocentric attitude is this??? There are lot of nice women out there, smart, caring, just not as good-looking and they get overlooked, because those idiots are just concentrating on the high-maintenance beauties who reject them and why should they not? They can afford to go for the best-looking smartest guys, why should they take you if they can get someone better???? And why should you criticize them for doing the same thing as you? They are going after the best, just as you. The difference is, they can get it, you don't. Live with it. Either increase your value on the meatmarket by working on yourself, lower your standards or stop procreating.

[sparticuss]

I've noticed that many guys who complain that women are so shallow obviously have incredibly high standards for their future girlfriend. They seem to believe they deserve the most attractive women without ever questioning once what they themselves have to offer. They never wonder why the woman should take them and not someone else. As if they are the only guys who ever approach her. She has to accept you, because you think you are worthy of her? What a megalomaniac egocentric attitude is this??? There are lot of nice women out there, smart, caring, just not as good-looking and they get overlooked, because those idiots are just concentrating on the high-maintenance beauties who reject them and why should they not? They can afford to go for the best-looking smartest guys, why should they take you if they can get someone better???? And why should you criticize them for doing the same thing as you? They are going after the best, just as you. The difference is, they can get it, you don't. Live with it. Either increase your value on the meatmarket by working on yourself, lower your standards or stop procreating.

 

PMSL

This is a female attitude m dear. Not a male one.

It's the females who use the expression "perfect man" not "good man".

Likewise its the females who make gods outof the latest sporting star or rock star and mob him even when they know they havent got a chance with him

 

The men get aroudn the bars and simply move from table to table checking out and talking to ALL the girls. Anything they DO have a chance with will do them.

 

Very rare that the girls will do this.

[Outcast]

It's the females who use the expression "perfect man" not "good man".

 

Well the males would sound pretty silly saying it, now wouldn't they?

 

You find me a man who isn't looking for a 'beautiful woman'. C'mon. I dare ya.

[bluetuesday]

admiral, you asked in a different thread for advice on how to grope women.

 

in this thread you asked for advice on hitting on them.

 

all the while you contribute to threads in the spirituality section which underline your professed christianity.

 

if it was someone else posting those things, don't you think it would seem a little odd?

 

you say you're a virgin. well girl's aren't stupid. they don't want to be groped or hit on by someone with a marked social disfunction, such as the one i think you're displaying. that's not a dig at you, i genuinely think you need help.

 

but when people here have tried to help you or give advice you have been determined not to accept it unless it was what you had decided in advance you wanted to hear.

 

in addition you have insulted every poster who has not agreed with you and inferred they are morally corrupt, filthy minded or just plain wrong. whatever the truth of your personality, you appear to be deeply arrogant and confrontational.

 

sadly, you have managed to alienate people who are members of this board because they genuinely want to help those people seeking guidance to find it.

 

no-one is personally attacking you when they disagree with you. try to bear that in mind, huh?

[Admiral Thrawn]

Bluetuesday;

 

Why are you trying to ressurect this thread that is virtually dead?

This is not the Jerry Springer show here. I think you are in the wrong place.

 

It seems like you want to learn a foreign language and learn how to meet foreign women.

[bluetuesday]

Why are you trying to ressurect this thread that is virtually dead?

 

a. you can't resurrect something that is virtually dead. it has to be all dead before it can rise from the dead.

 

b. the poster before me posted at 1.24am GMT today.

 

c. loveshack lives for ever. if you post it, we will read. and i was the first person in this thread to tell you to go and get your bumps felt. it needed saying.

 

d. oh alright then. i just wanted to meet foreign chicks and hit on them.

[sparticuss]

admiral, you asked in a different thread for advice on how to grope women.

 

in this thread you asked for advice on hitting on them.

 

all the while you contribute to threads in the spirituality section which underline your professed christianity.

 

if it was someone else posting those things, don't you think it would seem a little odd?

 

you say you're a virgin. well girl's aren't stupid. they don't want to be groped or hit on by someone with a marked social disfunction, such as the one i think you're displaying. that's not a dig at you, i genuinely think you need help.

 

but when people here have tried to help you or give advice you have been determined not to accept it unless it was what you had decided in advance you wanted to hear.

 

in addition you have insulted every poster who has not agreed with you and inferred they are morally corrupt, filthy minded or just plain wrong. whatever the truth of your personality, you appear to be deeply arrogant and confrontational.

 

sadly, you have managed to alienate people who are members of this board because they genuinely want to help those people seeking guidance to find it.

 

no-one is personally attacking you when they disagree with you. try to bear that in mind, huh?

 

Tuesday.

Time and time again I hear women moaning on and on about guys who are hopeless lovers. About how they have no awareness of womens bodies at all. Blah blah blah.

So whats such a big deal about a guy, paticularly a virgin, asking advice on how to effectively pleasure a woman.

[sparticuss]

Well the males would sound pretty silly saying it, now wouldn't they?

 

You find me a man who isn't looking for a 'beautiful woman'. C'mon. I dare ya.

 

I'll find you a dozen tomorrow. Incluing me.

I like my women freindly. ( Unfortunately most of these women are happily married. But still great friends)

 

I like em horny (preferably horny enough for sex on the first date. Or better still sex instead of the first date.)

 

I like em self supporting. (Mostly becaue I'm flatout just supporting myself)

 

Beautiful?????? No big deal ( I don't care if they don't turn heads inthe street. Actually I do care if they are so absoloutely dog ugly that they turn heads. But they sure don't need to be any beauty queens.)

 

So OUtcast can you find me such a woman.

1/ Single

2/ Likes guys

3/ Likes sex.

 

Be very grateful if you can.

[loony]

preferably horny enough for sex on the first date. Or better still sex instead of the first date.

I'm starting to see your problem with women...

[ReluctantRomeo]

You won't really impress a foreign girl by learning the language unless you become flawlessly fluent and accent-free in it, which can take a long time. They'll just think you're faintly amusing.

 

In fact, people who become flawless and accent-free are the exception, rather than the rule. Most of us never fully master a language we didn't grow up with.

 

But Juliet did impress me with her French - it's not accent-free, and I have to help her with vocabulary sometimes, but it's good. She sounds so cute

[ReluctantRomeo]

The idea of learning a foreign language sounds like a much more refined way of scoring.

 

I hope that people who read this thread could learn refinement, culture, and be inpired to learn a new language, and expand social circules to include people who may speak a different language, and/or have a different mentality that is not all about money.

 

There's nothing refined about calling it scoring...

 

 

If you impress a girl, you can do whatever you want if she is into you.

 

... or thinking like this

[dgiirl]

ahahahh this thread cracked me up. sorry to burst your bubble, but you're not going to be picking up any quebecor girls simply because you try to learn french. There's plenty of anglo's around if that's what she's into. And you're ontarian, so that's a negative for her lol. Oh and they'll be just thrilled with you relating them to france.

 

next, try again

[tinktronik]

Admiral, I believe Ive said hello to you before.Hello again. I can understand why if you've never had a g/f , you would feel like you needed to "pick up" certain things to impress women. I don't really know if learning a forign language would impress women or not, but it would be nice to know. Certainly the same applies to traveling , or being more cultured.

What do you think the constraints are that have caused you ( in the main) to have not been sucessfull with the "fairer" sex in the past?

[Admiral Thrawn]

What do you think the constraints are that have caused you ( in the main) to have not been sucessfull with the "fairer" sex in the past?

 

Well, to be honest, I've never asked for a phone number/asked someone out since July 2003, where I exchanged numbers. They say, no matter what you do, if you are consistent and persistent at it, you will experience some degree of success, even if it is all wrong (assuming you are on a learning curve and learning something along the way)

[tinktronik]

Well, to be honest, I've never asked for a phone number/asked someone out since July 2003, where I exchanged numbers. They say, no matter what you do, if you are consistent and persistent at it, you will experience some degree of success, even if it is all wrong (assuming you are on a learning curve and learning something along the way)

 

 

Many times women expect the man to make the first move, such as asking for a phone number or telling them they look nice or are nice ,or smart ,or whatever.So much of this failure may be due to simply not making innocent advances to express interest.Like I said before , it most likely wont hurt anything to learn a new language ,so go for it.

[tinktronik]

Well, to be honest, I've never asked for a phone number/asked someone out since July 2003, where I exchanged numbers. "They" say, no matter what you do, if you are consistent and persistent at it, you will experience some degree of success, even if it is all wrong (assuming you are on a learning curve and learning something along the way)

 

 

Who are THEY???

[Admiral Thrawn]

Many times women expect the man to make the first move, such as asking for a phone number or telling them they look nice or are nice ,or smart ,or whatever.So much of this failure may be due to simply not making innocent advances to express interest.Like I said before , it most likely wont hurt anything to learn a new language ,so go for it.

 

I see. It is difficult for me to do because I'm not really used to it and it is even a bit out of character for me. I really have to know the person first, to see if we are of the same faith, and are otherwise compatable before bringing it to another level. It is probably easier to socialise in a church environment and just mix with people there. I suppose, I just haven't found the right girl yet. There is also a lot of things in my life that needs a bit of sorting out.

 

I would really like to thank-you for your interest on this matter. The reason I'm learning a foreign language is really because I enjoy doing so for entertainment. When you just know one language, you get tired of expressing yourself the same way, and a new language is a new way of saying something. On November (a loose month), I made a deal with myself, that in exchange for not buying online porn for $ 8.00 US, I will buy a CD that will teach me a foreign language ($ 40.00 CDN), a deal I'm glad I made with myself. Well, at least learning a foreign language is better than looking at any porn.

 

Incidentally, I found out about this board afterwards, and noticed that picking up chicks were revolving about what people owned materially or financially, and making impressions on them. Then I thougth there should be an injection of threads that would focus on intrinisc qualities as opposed to externalities and started this one. It had been sort of dead for some time, but you brought it back to life.

 

Right now, I'm reading romance novels and looking at old movies that show men acting in authoritative roles, to hopefully learn something about 'acting like a man', or at least gain some insights into that. This was all suggested by the John Alanis program. It has a money-back guarantee. I guess I'm a bit of a home-boy and am not meeting enough people for that purpose.

[Admiral Thrawn]

Who are THEY???

 

It's a generalisation for people who typically give self-help advice.

 

It could be my a teacher at my Real-Estate school, named Mr. Appleton, who said, if you ask 50 people a day if they would like to sell their house, in person, and knocking at their door, even if you cant speak English properly you are bound to be successful.

 

The self-help book, Learning to succeed with women, by Ron Louis and David Copeland, if you wont do anything until you are absolutely sure you will succeed you will not go anywhere in life. Do not see any negative outcome as just 'bad', but see it as a learning experience where you can do better next time, and keep trying.

 

I'm sure, virtually every self-help book, seminar, or even any friend, and any religious principle is always going to encourage persistence. Even Jesus would suggest to ask, knock, and seek and imply that as a persistent effort as opposed to a one-shot affair.