22 year old son's perspective on parent's divorce

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So my parents have been divorced on paper for several years now but it wasnt until a little over a year ago that they really did separate. My father moved to Korea, and recently notified me and my 2 brothers that he was getting married to some woman. Of course I objected over this because I dont want to see him with another woman other than my mother. Now my mother, has recently told me and my brothers that SHE was getting married as well. And THAT came to a total surprise because a) she never mentioned that she was seeing someone b) I have more concerns over her than my father, I guess because maybe im more protective and worried about my mother's situation. The problem with my mother getting married is that shes only known this man for 1 MONTH. And it seems as though shes marrying so soon because she hates my dad so much and wants to get over that part of her life. Really though, what is the damn rush to get married? Is it because my father is getting married in march and shes just in a way competing with him or something? It looks as though this seems such a trivial answer, but I really do think that. The mere mention of my father's name invokes such anger and hatred from my mom. Another problem is that this guy has 0 money. My mother is financially stable because my father gave away over a million to her and thanks in part to my father, she receives steady income from an apartment complex she owns and runs.

 

I've lost pretty much all faith in both my parents. Coming through all this i've realized how selfish my family is, me included. Its a family that runs away from its problems, not fixing them.

 

oh and by the way, money is the root of all evil. money is corruption, and greed, and tears family's apart. the moment my dad started making money is the moment **** hit the fan.