Author grace2005 Posted January 10, 2006 Author Share Posted January 10, 2006 Not everyone with BPD is a danger to someone else or commits criminal acts. I'm one of those who does not commit criminal acts against others. Link to post Share on other sites
Author grace2005 Posted January 10, 2006 Author Share Posted January 10, 2006 It's too bad alot of people on this forum think it's worth all this hard work to get a relationship. It's much easier being single. You have no responsibilities and you don't have to be accountable to anyone. You don't have to do alot of work as a single man. The only accountability you would have is to obey the laws of the government. Link to post Share on other sites
Author grace2005 Posted January 10, 2006 Author Share Posted January 10, 2006 I'd still like to know why it was ok for my ex to dump me but not ok for me to dump her. It's a double standard. At least give me credit. I didn't leave her for another woman. I left her & remain single. To the best of my knowledge she did not leave me for another man either. So give credit to where credit is due. I'd say its worse to dump someone for someone else than to dump someone and remain single for awhile. Link to post Share on other sites
Author grace2005 Posted January 10, 2006 Author Share Posted January 10, 2006 I'm not a cheater. I was always faithful in our relationship but I guess that does not matter. It does not matter that I had some good qualities. It does not matter that I was not a deadbeat either. At least I earn an honest living. I know a couple guys who are deadbeats and I don't see how they can get a girlfriend but they do. Link to post Share on other sites
Author grace2005 Posted January 11, 2006 Author Share Posted January 11, 2006 The self improvement is all new age crap. Ignore anyone who preaches self improvement. Just be yourself. Don't try to change for anybody. Self esteem and self improvement and self respect philosophy is all arrogance. But that's how american society is today. It really puts alot of emphasis on "self" and self centerdness and independence. If you don't believe me then go to other countries like ethiopia and you will find their society does not believe in looking out for number 1. I do not believe in putting self first. I say f*ck self respect! I usually get what I want by sacrificing my self respect. Link to post Share on other sites
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