Alpacalia Posted April 11 Share Posted April 11 (edited) 15 hours ago, cookieboobie said: Finally! Someone that gets it. Thank you! I know for a fact that I am not crushing on him. I had this happen to me before when I was like- 19. I‘ve met a similar guy and I was so "obsessed" and happy to be around him, talk and call him everyday. After a few days of not talking (which was hard), that obsessive phase stopped. So, no crush. Yes, I can relate. Years ago a good male friend that I was friends with for many years, I never wanted to date him nor did I have romantic feelings towards him, but when he gave attention to my other female friends it bugged me a tiny weenie bit. Interesting enough, a few years later he mentioned to me that he always carried a torch for me and was in love with me. Of course I did not feel that same way and any woman that he was dating I hoped that he would be happy with her. In general, I believe that it is natural for a person to feel a little possessive or jealous when it comes to their close friends, especially if they feel a strong connection with that person. But, I wouldn't necessarily say that this is a romantic or even a platonic feeling, it's more of a protective or worried feeling. Edited April 11 by Alpacalia Link to post Share on other sites
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