Porn Porn Porn... Now that I have your attention...

[Citizen Erased]

What the hell is the fascination guys have with porn? You could lock them in a sealed room, with only a wooden chair and table and they'd still somehow manage to get the damn stuff. Guys with absolutely gorgeous girlfriends still look at those feral nasty excuses for a FEMALE when they have a goddess in the bedroom WHAT THE?

 

Okay I take it as a given when I go into a relationship that guys will ALWAYS look at porn. You can make them swear on their mothers life they will not look at it and yet they will still look at the damn thing behind your back. Not that I have ever actually expected of any guy to not look at the stuff but my friends frequently keep crawling to me asking what they should 'do' about their boyfriend who absolutely swore they would'never even think of looking at the stuff' but when the computer screen turns on its a whole different story

 

I tried it out with my current boyfriend, he's a good sport so I can torture him with any secret knowledge I may have of his activities I was like 'oh you wouldnt ever need to look at that stuff would you'. Of course he said no, 'you're gorgeous, you're all I need' blah blah blah YEAH RIGHT! A search for a song, in recent documents, which had been lost which I wanted on my ipod (hehe) resulted in 'hot MILF' and a variety of hilarious titles. All I could do was shake my head and laugh. Men are quite funny.

 

So all of you men on here please explain to all of us females the temptation which porn provides in your day to day life so I actually have something to say to my friends who come crawling to me asking 'why oh why?'

 

I said it before and I'll say it again WHAT THE?

[Neptune]

Men are visually stimulated. Porn is a problem. When I was a kid, oh so many decades ago, it was a different world. Virtually nonexistent. My how things have changed!

 

I do not really like porn. I do like to look at nude pictures of beautiful women. But, that is something that has to be kept to a minimum. It gets addictive too fast.

 

Younger guys are really into all that stuff. It is a big problem. Just as drugs have become a big problem. The solution is the same. The individual must recognize it as a problem and deal with it.

[Outcast]

Things are only problems when they are taken to excess.

[Lucasarts]

porn was a great teacher in the art of sex ahahahahhaha

 

i think we love porn b/c we have some sick thing in our brain that makes us enjoy being a creepy voyeur to some hardcore sex scene

 

or that we like to see our darkest, deepest fantasies being played out

[sparticuss]

LOL You dont really want to know about it girl. Know why guys lie to thier girlfriends? Cause their girlfriends cant handle the truth . Thats why.

So don't ask the questions unless you can handle the answers.

Unless you can handle the truth. The truth which I'm about to tell you.

 

 

Shall we get into it.

 

What the hell is the fascination guys have with porn?

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What the hell is the hang up that women have with anything sexual. Why do they regard sex as obscene untill the day that they face the loss of a breast to breast cancer. Then sex appeal becomes more important than life itself.

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You could lock them in a sealed room, with only a wooden chair and table and they'd still somehow manage to get the damn stuff. Guys with absolutely gorgeous girlfriends still look at those feral nasty excuses for a FEMALE when they have a goddess in the bedroom WHAT THE?

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The, so called, ferals, are actually beautiful girls. More, far more, importantly, the side interviews with them, next to thire photos in the mens mags, are filled with descriptions of how much they enjoy sex. Horny females are the biggest single turn on for males. Even bigger than beautiful ones.

The so called, "goddess in the bedroom" is a walking attitude problem who hates guys generally and her bf in paticular. And is pretty good at letting him know about all manner of real and imaginged shortcomings. She not only hates guys. She also hates sex. The absoloute main turn off for guys.

No wonder paper girls are sexier than the real thing.

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Okay I take it as a given when I go into a relationship that guys will ALWAYS look at porn. You can make them swear on their mothers life they will not look at it and yet they will still look at the damn thing behind your back.

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If you intend to "MAKE them swear" then that makes you a control freak. One of the most widely recognoisedforms of both wife and husband abuser. Check the abuse boards for this one.

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Not that I have ever actually expected of any guy to not look at the stuff but my friends frequently keep crawling to me asking what they should 'do' about their boyfriend who absolutely swore they would'never even think of looking at the stuff' but when the computer screen turns on its a whole different story

 

I tried it out with my current boyfriend, he's a good sport so I can torture him with any secret knowledge I may have of his activities

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NO NO NO NO NO! YOU FOOL! You can only tortue him for so long. Then he will suddenly abandon you. Just walk away leaving you totally dubmfounded and wondering what happened. Check with the marriage counsellers. Over 90% of all relatinships break up in this sudden fashion.

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I was like 'oh you wouldnt ever need to look at that stuff would you'. Of course he said no, 'you're gorgeous, you're all I need' blah blah blah YEAH RIGHT! A search for a song, in recent documents, which had been lost which I wanted on my ipod (hehe) resulted in 'hot MILF' and a variety of hilarious titles. All I could do was shake my head and laugh. Men are quite funny.

 

So all of you men on here please explain to all of us females the temptation which porn provides in your day to day life

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You have your explanation. Paper women are better than the real thing. Thats honesty. Thats the truth.

But can you handle the truth? Most girls can't. Most mature women can. But girls think that they are mature women when they grow breasts. Mature women understand that real maturity doesn't come untill you have grown grey hair.

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so I actually have something to say to my friends who come crawling to me asking 'why oh why?'

 

I said it before and I'll say it again WHAT THE?

[thekiss]

Ok...men and porn.

 

I would like to point out that I have asked this question of so many men in my life it's crazy. I too was trying to get an explanation asking brothers, friends, boyfriends, exboyfriends...

 

I think the opinion that men prefer paper women, women hate their boyfriends, and that sexuality to a women is unimportant until she loses a breast to breast cancer is sort of nuts...but to each their own I guess.

 

The fact is this. Men are stimulated visually. It's an excitement for them. Whether you are a supermodel or not, has nothing to do with it. Men like to look at women naked...good, bad, indifferent, if they can see a woman naked...they'll do it. It has nothing to do with the women in their lives (unless we're talking addiction here), we shouldn't take it personally.

 

This concept is typically difficult for us (women) to understand, 'cuz we are just not motivated in the same fashion. Usually for us sex is much more intimate, involving feelings and closeness. We tend to get horny looking at the man we love, coming out of the garage, all greasy from changing the oil in our cars. We don't get horny 'cuz we open up a page and there's a guy naked with his legs in the air. This pose would probably have exactly the OPPOSITE affect. LOL!

 

I think men are pretty simple creatures, I mean think about it...they're getting off on a chic that they can't touch, kiss, have sex with, is nothing more than paper...and some men say that is actually preferred! Talk about simpleton! LOL!

 

I have to admit, that I am not in love with this whole ritual of strip clubs and porn, along with bad women drivers, (in my opinion) these kinds of examples are what give women a bad name. I think it just makes us all look bad and sets a bad example. I hate thinking that women will do tricks for money...