Author Mizzcasual Posted May 23, 2024 Author Share Posted May 23, 2024 18 hours ago, happyhorizons said: Exactly. I think you will be able to have some nice conversations away from the rush traffic crowd going to work. He definitely lit up a bit smiling when I asked from where he was from too . And when he said I got to go … cause I park. Was kinda soft how he said it . Only cause others are saying differently about the whole thing. I see how he is next time we talk whenever that is . Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted May 23, 2024 Share Posted May 23, 2024 4 hours ago, Mizzcasual said: I don’t appreciate you being quite rude towards me frankly I was replying to another user. Anyway I know what’s going on I have nothing more to add to this . Do you, though? You seem to be in a lot of denial about his lack of real interest in you. Link to post Share on other sites
Alpacalia Posted May 23, 2024 Share Posted May 23, 2024 I can guarantee if bus driver was interested in hot passenger he would have called her by now. Which, I've said before, but since you're so adamant of something going through, I'm scared bus driver will think this is some catfish weirdo who wont take no for an answer. You don't want to spend another year waiting for him to make a move. You need to either let go of this crush (which doesn't sound like it's happening anytime soon) or give him your Whatsapp and then let it GO. Obviously the first time when you gave him your phone number he didn't call, which means, not interested, and you seem pretty determined to pursue him further, so go ahead and give him your hotline to see if anything happens. THEN LET IT GO! I would also warn you that this is his work environment and he's being friendly because it's his job. If you keep pressing, you may find yourself banned from that bus. So please, proceed with caution. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mizzcasual Posted May 23, 2024 Author Share Posted May 23, 2024 (edited) 38 minutes ago, happyhorizons said: No.....bus drivers are NOT ALLOWED to call HOT passengers that is in the code book in BOLD PRINT but I do agree the OP is wasting time instead of getting to the point one way or the other. I’ll definitely try something I was going slow to avoid coming across like chasing letting things happen naturally . I don’t see him a lot . He’s definitely acted different since then I gave it to him long time ago probably more early days. Interactions changed not the typical ones . He seems shy and looks like he follows my lead waiting for me i think I see other drivers out interactions are very different Edited May 23, 2024 by Mizzcasual Link to post Share on other sites
Alpacalia Posted May 24, 2024 Share Posted May 24, 2024 4 hours ago, happyhorizons said: No.....bus drivers are NOT ALLOWED to call HOT passengers that is in the code book in BOLD PRINT but I do agree the OP is wasting time instead of getting to the point one way or the other. Not allowed to but countless stories of people that throw caution to the wind in their workplace and carry on with it anyway. Not saying it's appropriate, but it happens. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Alpacalia Posted May 24, 2024 Share Posted May 24, 2024 1 minute ago, happyhorizons said: But what about the bus driver code of ethics book? Surely you jest…. All I am saying if he was remotely interested outside of work he 1) would have called by now one year later. I've seen countless posts and people that have met and married through work when they weren't supposed to. There are protocols at work to keep personal lives separate, but if a person is sincerely interested in you, they will find a way to get in touch without being fired. Link to post Share on other sites
NuevoYorko Posted May 25, 2024 Share Posted May 25, 2024 21 hours ago, happyhorizons said: I think the OP will ultimately find a way to make significant contact. Like, by following him home after his bus driving day ? Link to post Share on other sites
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