mark clemson Posted May 13 Share Posted May 13 2 hours ago, EvanMich said: Two people replied in it. And it wasn't real. Had nothing to do with my actual case. Only the sex part was real. So you do admit to writing fake posts, but THIS one is real. And claim to have joined recently but are digging up posts from 8 years ago as "evidence." Got it. Sorry but to be brutally honest I have little doubt that actual sex is the LEAST real part of any of this. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
MsJayne Posted May 13 Share Posted May 13 4 hours ago, EvanMich said: The way I went on about it was stupid. Yep. Link to post Share on other sites
EvanMich Posted May 13 Share Posted May 13 6 hours ago, basil67 said: So if you're comfortable with this decision, why are you posting? I want to exchange my thoughts with others as I said even though this is a niche forum. It's suffocating to keep it all inside of me. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted May 13 Share Posted May 13 (edited) 1 hour ago, EvanMich said: I want to exchange my thoughts with others as I said even though this is a niche forum. It's suffocating to keep it all inside of me. OK so going back to this >> The problem is I started to think of the consequences. What will happen if his parents will find out, or if my kids or wife knew. I am starting being very anxious and paranoid and told him we should take a break from seeing each other. I have to say I am thinking of ending it. I don't want to ruin my marriage or get into conflicts, but I am still very attracted to him. What should I do? The potential consequences you've mentioned all very realistic. Thing is, he's got nothing to lose if he drops you in it. The only real option you have is to end it in a kind manner and hope that your lover doesn't feel angry/resentful/taken advantage of/become drunk and emotional and decide to blow you out of the water now or in the future. It's always going to be hanging over your head and this is the price you have to pay for your decisions. Sorry, but there's no answer. Edited May 13 by basil67 2 Link to post Share on other sites
EvanMich Posted May 13 Share Posted May 13 1 hour ago, basil67 said: OK so going back to this >> The problem is I started to think of the consequences. What will happen if his parents will find out, or if my kids or wife knew. I am starting being very anxious and paranoid and told him we should take a break from seeing each other. I have to say I am thinking of ending it. I don't want to ruin my marriage or get into conflicts, but I am still very attracted to him. What should I do? The potential consequences you've mentioned all very realistic. Thing is, he's got nothing to lose if he drops you in it. The only real option you have is to end it in a kind manner and hope that your lover doesn't feel angry/resentful/taken advantage of/become drunk and emotional and decide to blow you out of the water now or in the future. It's always going to be hanging over your head and this is the price you have to pay for your decisions. Sorry, but there's no answer. Yes, that's what I am thinking too. I spoke to him this morning, saying its time to end it and he was fine, saying he is talking to a new girl he met, I wished him luck and he was grateful for the experience. It's good it ended on good terms. Link to post Share on other sites
6ix Posted May 14 Senior Moderators Share Posted May 14 On 5/12/2024 at 7:11 PM, mark clemson said: So you do admit to writing fake posts, but THIS one is real. And claim to have joined recently but are digging up posts from 8 years ago as "evidence." Got it. Sorry but to be brutally honest I have little doubt that actual sex is the LEAST real part of any of this. None of this is real and neither are any of the posts from their other three accounts. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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