bingoloco678 Posted May 11 Share Posted May 11 Don't really know what advice I'm asking for here, just interested to hear if anyone has been in a similar situation. Met a guy on a college trip and got on really well with him, spent a lot of time talking and joking with him. We ended up kissing but then his friend pulled him away to talk to him and I found out he had a girlfriend. He apologised for it the next day, nothing else happened but we spent a lot of time talking alone together and he explained to me the problems in his relationship. He also complimented me a lot and really seemed to like me and I liked him too. Anyway, we get home from the trip and he tells me he wants to stay in his relationship so we have very little contact after that. I know what he did was really wrong but I have still just had an extremely hard time getting over him, it's hard to explain I just thought we had such a connection when we first met. I know it's stupid for me to still think about him, but I do, even months later. So nothing really happened until three months after, I get a text from his girlfriend - (not sure if she asked him for my number or if she just looked at his phone without him knowing / I've never met the girlfriend, don't know her at all). She wanted to know everything that happened as she was trying to decide if this was something she could move on from. Getting this text was quite stressful for me, it felt like all the pressure was on me to make or break their relationship. I sent a reply explaining everything that happened with the kiss. To be honest though, I wasn't completely truthful about the things we talked about because they included some very personal things about her and I didn't want her to know that I knew that. I know I probably should have told her and I feel slightly guilty about this but I honestly just didn't want to get into any further conversation with her. So it's about a week later and I have no idea whether they are staying together or not (I would love to know purely out of nosiness but I can't exactly ask). Anyway, that's about it. Have just basically been feeling pretty sad because I wish I could just talk to him sometimes. Any thoughts anyone? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted May 11 Share Posted May 11 It seems you two enjoyed a conversation and shared a kiss. At your ages it happens, but that doesn't make it right because now his gf is hurt. In the future when a girl contacts you for information about what you and that guy did, refer her back to him and don't give her information. He is looking sad because she's angry with him. The kiss didn't mean enough to him to want to leave his girl. 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted May 17 Share Posted May 17 You don't have him reaching out to you so obviously they are trying to working things out. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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